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A Pro-Life Atheist’s Video Shared With The Friendly Atheist’s Readers

Posted by on Feb 18, 2014 in Pro-Life Atheists in Media |

Posters advertising pro-life atheist talk were destroyed

Posters advertising pro-life atheist talk were destroyed

Congratulations to Kelsey Hazzard from Secular Pro-Life who made a nice splash both prior to and  following her presentation “Pro-Life Without God” (see video below).

After the pro-life student club she was speaking to at the University of Georgia experienced vandalism of the posters announcing her upcoming talk, (a sadly all-too-common occurrence that I’ve seen repeatedly in my decade and a half of haunting the halls of various universities), the censorship was featured in a number of print and online publications. One of these publications was The Friendly Atheist’s Blog who made a point of emphasizing his displeasure regarding the censorship.

“Obviously, those actions are to be condemned by everybody. That’s the way you respond when you have no good arguments on your side. If you really think they’re wrong, let them advertise as they wish, then dissent in a productive, meaningful way.

(Yay for Hemant Mehta! I love that kind of intellectual honesty!)

He also added:

“I’m amazed that I haven’t seen a presentation like this at any of the atheist conferences I’ve ever been to. (At least I can’t remember seeing one like it.) If conference organizers are trying to reach out to a broader spectrum of people, Kelsey seems like a natural choice for a poised speaker who has a very different perspective to bring to the secular table. Even if you think she’s way off base, she represents not-an-insignificant portion of our community. It’d at least be interesting to see the two sides of this argument hash things out in front of a crowd.

So again, congratulations to our pro-life atheist comrade from our sister organization. Hopefully the speaking opportunities will indeed be offered to pro-life atheists at future conferences! I’m currently waiting to hear back from the American Humanist Convention since their former president has recommended me as a speaker. Good things ahead for pro-life atheists!

Kelsey’s presentation:

And do go read The post on The Friendly Atheist and join in the conversation. Not all pro-lifers interacting with The Friendly Atheist community are well-versed in pro-life reason or even atheist for that matter. Let’s make sure our voices are heard!

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The Pregnancy Project: Breaking Stereotypes

Posted by on Feb 13, 2014 in Book & Media Reviews | 2 comments

New blog category: introducing “Book & Media Reviews”, for the many times abortion and unplanned pregnancy appear in film, TV, movies, and books! Behold your first: The Pregnancy Project: A Memoir

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Gaby Rodriguez poses with actress who plays her

Gaby Rodriguez (right) posing with actress who plays her on film.


Despite being a low-income Latina and daughter of a teenaged single Mom, Gaby Rodriguez exceeded many people’s expectations. An honor-roll student on countless school committees, squad captain, member of the leadership team, and already recommended by several teachers to the college of her choice, Gaby was a top contender on nearly everyone’s “sure to excel” list… Until her senior year, when she announced to her school and family that she was pregnant. While some, like her leadership class teacher, said encouraging things like “Well, I don’t see why you can’t be a leader and a mom”, most reactions from peers, teachers and family were cold and cruel:

“I always knew she’d get pregnant. All the girls from her neighborhood do.”

“She’s so stupid. She just threw her life away.”

“She’ll never go to college now.”

“I wonder if she’ll even graduate.”

“Her boyfriend’s going to bail.”

“She had a real chance at a future and now she’ll never amount to anything. Her life is over.”

As Gaby walked the halls of her school that year, she and her closest confidantes kept track of comments that were said to and about her. She and her boyfriend Jorge bore a full barrage of negative expectations, and she witnessed how fast those around her began to look down and devalue her potential once her belly began to grow. She wanted desperately to show them all that she was still the same intelligent and potential-filled young lady she had been before she became pregnant – and in fact she was

… Because Gaby wasn’t pregnant.

Gaby Rodriguez, now the author of a book entitled The Pregnancy Project: A Memoir and subject of a Lifetime Network Movie by the same name, faked a pregnancy for her senior project in high school, in order to showcase and rebuke the endless stereotypes put on teen Moms. Many of those stereotypes become self-fulfilling prophecies as society fails to encourage the young ladies to do any better for themselves, and tells the young dads they’re doomed to never have a normal life again – which only furthers the statistics and stereotypes as more and more of them fall in line with the negative expectations placed on them.

Why do we not come alongside a pregnant young lady and tell her “it won’t be easy but it can be done – and we can help?” On page 111 of her book, Gaby highlights the example of the four-minute mile. Prior to 1954 doctors and scientists said it was physically impossible for a human body to run a mile in under four minutes. No one had ever done it and it was believed one would die in the attempt. But just as soon as one man did it, he was quickly followed by another runner after another, and by 1957 sixteen runners had beaten the four minute mile. It seemed that once they knew it could be done, it entered their realm of possibility. The human mind is susceptible to that kind of conditioning – so why is society so quick to restrict the vision of possibility for young teens by telling them they are bound to have miserable lives if they have a baby?

I’ll let Gaby share her thoughts on the matter in this brief excerpt: (The Pregnancy Project, page 124-127)

The thing is, I understand where the negativity comes from. People say these things because they’ve seen other other young, unmarried parents mess up their lives. It would be unrealistic to expect everyone to say “Congratulations!” and cheer about it — and that would probably be harmful to others, because other teens might see the positive attention and want some of it for themselves… leading to more teen pregnancies.

No matter what, I knew that the focus had to stay on avoiding teen pregnancies in the first place. But once the act is done, why throw teen parents under the bus? Whether a committed couple’s birth control failed or someone got drunk at a party and had a one-night stand, the result is the same: There’s going to be a baby. What good does it do anyone to sit around insulting the parents? What positive result can possibly come of it?

If anything, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Teen moms don’t usually stop at one child. You’d think that they’d have hard lives and never want to get into that predicament again, but it often doesn’t happen that way. One in four teen moms gets pregnant again within two years. They wind up having second and third kids without being in solid marriages, but why? Maybe it’s because they’ve been told they’re screwups and that their own lives are over now anyway, so they figure this is all they can do in life. Maybe they become desperate for affection because they’ve been so ostracized. I can’t be sure what goes on in everyone’s minds, but can make guesses based on how I felt during the experiment.

… A message board post from a teen mom echoed what I was feeling. “When you get pregnant as a teenager, a lot of people give up on you and treat you like garbage, no matter how smart or nice or hard-working you were before,” she wrote. “Nobody wants to ‘encourage teen pregnancy’, so they feel it’s their duty to make you suffer. It is painful and scarring and it’s why a lot of teen moms drop out.”

I believe that once the news is announced, the focus needs to be on what now? For the benefit of society, it’s in everyone’s interest to make sure this baby doesn’t grow up to become a criminal, or a lifelong welfare recipient. Its entirely possible for the children of teen moms to do great things — you don’t need to look any further than President Barack Obama for proof of that. His mom was eighteen when she had him. Or Eric Clapton, Oprah Winfrey, even Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez — all were reared by teen moms, and no matter what you think of them, they’re all hugely successful in their fields.

So why not focus on that? Why not see President Obama’s mom as the four-minute mile of teen pregnancy? If she was able to finish her education, attain a successful life, and have one of her children grow up to become president of the United States, then we know it’s possible. With enough support and encouragement, maybe the teen dads would stick around, and maybe the teen moms would finish their education, get better jobs, and stop repeating the cycle.

We won’t win this battle by finger-pointing and gossiping. We win it by educating, talking, and lifting each other up. We win it by being decent to one another.

I think Gaby Rodriguez is quite right. She identifies in her book as being “very much pro-life” (page 89) and while she doesn’t say so explicitly, it’s not hard to see why many teens and young single women succumb to abortion precisely because they are so terrified by the refrain of “it’ll ruin your life!”. Women deserve better than that. If we truly care for their well-being and that of their children, our focus needs to be on offering women real support and real choices. Having a child will change a woman’s life (and that of her partner) especially if she chooses to raise the baby herself, but it doesn’t have to end or destroy it. It’s up to all of us to give her the encouragement and support she needs to not end her child’s life. She shouldn’t have to do it alone.

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Goodbye Baby Munoz

Goodbye Baby Munoz

Posted by on Jan 27, 2014 in Abortion in the News | 2 comments

Eric Munoz poses with family picture

Eric Munoz poses with a family picture of his wife Marlise Munoz and older son

[See this post on LifeNews]

The life of a 23 week-old fetus was aborted in the state of Texas yesterday, and ironically, the child’s mother wasn’t involved in the choice.  In fact, had her* mother still been conscious, a newly passed Texas law prohibiting the abortion of pain-conscious fetuses (beyond 20 weeks gestation) would’ve protected her life today.

But Baby Munoz was not your average “unwanted” fetus.  Neither was the pregnancy that carried her, nor her eventual death anywhere near typical.   Baby Munoz’ mother Marlise became brain-dead on November 26th when the wanted fetus was only 14 weeks old.  In order to give the fetus a fighting chance at viability, her hospital refused to disconnect her from life-support, going against the end-of-life wishes of Marlise and her family.  And so began a lengthy court battle between Baby Munoz’ father Eric and the hospital, as lawyers and bioethicists argued over the Texas law that supposedly forbade the denying of life-sustaining medical care to a pregnant woman.

The Texas Legislature can’t require doctors to do the impossible and try to treat someone who’s dead.” said bioethicist Arthur L. Caplan in a New York Times coverage of the case.  And it’s true that under normal circumstances, maintaining a body that has no hope of recovering consciousness is unethical.  After all, Marlise wasn’t merely vegetative, she had been declared brain-dead.  Were it not for the fetus in question, Marlise’s life-support machines would’ve been turned off and her body interned many weeks ago.   But there was a patient in the equation who was not dead.  A developing human child with her own body and her own rights and whose life-support was currently her mother.

Baby Munoz lost her life yesterday afternoon.  It was her father Eric who got the right to choose in the end, as a judge ordered Marlise taken off life-support per the family’s wishes.  And thus a wanted fetus who had been one of two patients prior to November 26th, was downgraded to a non-entity, condemned to lose her life-support and be buried with her mother’s body.  With rising concerns over fetal abnormalities, the hospital chose to not attempt a preterm delivery.   Instead of only losing one patient, the hospital lost two.

Has the debate over bodily autonomy and “a woman’s right to choose” so blinded society that even when the issue has nothing to do with a woman still capable of choice, and even when the body in question is no worse off on a ventilator than in the ground, we nonetheless cannot grant a fetus the right to what he or she needs to survive?  How have we come to fight for a fetus’ life via fetal surgery on the one hand, and yet deny a nearly viable fetus the basics of oxygen and nutrients on the other hand – simply because her mother’s family wants a body to bury sooner rather than later?

One may fairly point out that organ harvesting cannot be forced on a dead body if doing so violates the desires expressed by the individual while still alive.  Despite the obvious controversy of forced organ harvesting, the case of the so-called “dead incubator” is not entirely analogous.  Under ordinary circumstances a woman has an obligation to provide basic care and protection to her offspring, and as a biological member of the human family, the fetal offspring should see that same obligation extended to him or her.   Where the woman’s right to bodily autonomy conflicts with the right of the fetus to live, the loss of life is a greater loss than the temporary loss of autonomy, and does not nullify the basic rights a fetus should have as a human being.  This is even more true where the loss to the woman is completely null and the loss to her family is but a delayed funeral.

Unfortunately, Baby Munoz is victim of a flawed Texas law being applied at last.  Baby Munoz could’ve been legally aborted at 14 weeks by a conscious mother, so it’s a wonder the hospital saw her as a patient to be fought for in the first place.   There were two bodies present in the Munoz tragedy, one still having had a hope of survival.  For a brief time, the John Peter Smith Hospital acted as though that were true.

So goodbye, Baby Munoz..  You join the countless vulnerable and dependent human beings deemed too young to count as individuals with their own rights.  Perhaps you would’ve been born deformed and brain damaged. Perhaps you would’ve overcome your rough beginnings and survived just like the 27 week fetus recently born to a woman declared brain-dead when 15 weeks pregnant.  We won’t ever know…  But one thing is certain: your brief life has touched many.  You won’t soon be forgotten.

* Fetal gender and name announced today.  She was named Nicole – Marlise’ middle name.

The above blog post has been picked up by LifeNews.  Please visit http://www.lifenews.com/2014/01/27/baby-nicole-munoz-was-never-given-a-right-to-choose/  if you wish to comment on and share the post with friends and family and the wider pro-life community.

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Atheist Experience & Non Prophets Podcasts discussing abortion

Atheist Experience & Non Prophets Podcasts discussing abortion

Posted by on Jan 7, 2014 in Pro-Life Atheists in Media | 13 comments

Feeding our new “Pro-Life Atheists in Media” category are two recent podcast episodes that raise the issue of atheism and pro-life.

In the December 1st, 2013 episode of The Atheist Experience (episode #842) hosts Russell Glasser and Martin Wagner take a call from a man who asks “why are most atheists pro-choice?”  I think you’ll quite enjoy what they have to say about the intersection of religion and culture on social issues.

 

And in THIS episode of The Non-Prophets Podcast, around 21:20 abortion enters discussion. (Abortion – which is a religion issue, folks!) Don’t miss the golden statement from the female host Julie Larsen, shortly after 30:30. She declares: “Yeah there’s no secular reason to be against abortion”, and one of the hosts responds that “there are arguments you can make that *pose* as non-religious arguments, to try to make it seem…”

Feel free to write in to the Non Prophets to let them know you are a pro-life atheist and why (post your response here if you wish)

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Pro-Life Atheists in Media – Our New Category

Posted by on Dec 29, 2013 in Pro-Life Atheists in Media |

In recent weeks I’ve shared atheist media and blog coverage indicating that Atheists are Asking About Abortion. And then that Atheists are Talking About Abortion Again. “Calling subsequent entries “Atheists are Talking About Abortion Again Again Again Again” might quickly get a mite repetitive, so behold our new blog category: Pro-Life Atheists in Media. Follow this link to keep abreast of new incidences of pro-life atheism being recognized and discussed.  Not every mention will be featured on the blog (some may only appear on the Pro-Life Humanists Facebook page as good reads), but ones by mainstream atheists and worthy of your response and partipation likely will.

And now for YOUR assignment:  Your mission as an individual interested in the voice of pro-life atheists is to be sure to keep the community informed of what is being said about us and when.  You can either contact me by email or you can post to the FB page if you become aware of a new article, video, blog, forum, or podcast on which pro-life atheists (or the counter claim that all pro-lifers are theists) are being discussed – whether in positive or negative light.  Sign yourself up for Mentions (Google alerts currently provides fewer hits) and watch what hits the internet and social media with with key words specific to secular/atheist/non-religious abortion/pro-life/prolife etc.  Every time someone mentions pro-life atheism is a great opportunity to say “we do exist and check out these web-sites”.    Listen to weekly atheist podcasts.  I can’t listen to them all and neither can you, so if you’re on board, let me know and we can tag-team to ensure we’re hitting them all together.  Podcasts are especially important to monitor, since not all topics raised in an episode will appear in searchable keywords.

Do you listen to any secular podcasts where the issue of abortion is occasionally raised?  Which ones?  Do you participate in any online atheist communities?   Let’s ensure we all network and connect across social media!  No pro-life atheists should ever feel alone out there!   The more we bridge forces the more closetted pro-life atheists will feel at ease about coming out, and the larger our community will become.  The holidays are (almost) over!  Hop to it, everyone!  🙂

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Atheists are Talking about Abortion (again)

Atheists are Talking about Abortion (again)

Posted by on Dec 5, 2013 in Pro-Life Atheists in Media | 3 comments

In case you missed it,
The Friendly Atheist, a well-read blog written by Hemant Mehta, author of I Sold My Soul on Ebay recently posted a video on his blog asking whether it makes sense to be a pro-life atheist. Great discussion has ensued, both on his blog post and in the youtube channel, and I’d encourage those of you who like to discuss and engage your fellow atheists to join in the discussion.

Do keep following The Friendly Atheist, since he is a friendly atheist indeed. Yours truly has just been invited to guest-blog the reasons why we believe it makes sense to be a pro-life atheist. I’ll keep everyone posted once it’s published, as this is a grand opportunity indeed. Even if it is, as Hermant so eloquently put it: “like asking you to step in front of a firing squad.” 🙂

– Kristine Kruszelnicki

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“God Loves Uganda” – When Pro-Life births Homophobia

“God Loves Uganda” – When Pro-Life births Homophobia

Posted by on Dec 3, 2013 in GLBT | 5 comments

God loves Uganda?   Not if you’re a Ugandan homosexual.   At least that’s the message that well-meaning but misguided Christian fundamentalist missionaries are unwittingly bringing to Africa.  In Uganda, a bill is currently being considered in parliament that will ban homosexuality – with the death penalty as punishment for “repeat offenders”.    Sadly, it’s our otherwise pro-life allies who are amongst the religious groups sending these missionaries, the unintentional carriers of a “pro-family” Christian message being taken to deadly extremes.

God Love Uganda is a new and multiple-award-winning documentary that takes a balanced look at recent outpouring of missionary efforts in Uganda, and examines why “traditional family” and gospel messages that are often rejected in North America are finding such fertile ground in developing countries.   The documentary showcases Charismatic Christian leaders and youth from the International House of Prayer, including the well-known Lou Engle, whose projects The Call and Bound4life have played a significant role amongst Charismatic Christians by stirring many “pro-life in name only” Christians to becoming more active in speaking out against abortion.   As the struggling Ugandan economy welcomes the onslaught of help from the rich and the white, Christian fundamentalists from America are finding a ripe and willing audience that is hungry for change and vulnerable to messages that are largely ignored or kept in check in the developed world.   Without adequate and democratic safeguards to equality and freedom for all, efforts to “reclaim the national for Jesus” have led to mob attacks, including the bludgeoning death of gay rights activist David Kato , leader of SMUG – Sexual Minorities of Uganda.

This eight minute Op-Doc, entitled “Gospel of Intolerance” was created by the film’s producers for the New York Times, and provides a succinct summary of the film and the issues therein:

As Humanists and as pro-lifers, I believe that this is something we can’t afford to overlook.  Most, if not all of us, oppose the death penalty – and how much more so when the death penalty is being considered against real human beings for no other reason than their sexual orientation!   As pro-lifers we tend to speak largely on the issue of abortion, and rightly so since the unborn are a people group with no rights and who are being discriminated against and killed for reasons outside of their control.   But as a Humanist I can’t help but feel the same degree of rage and concern when any human being is targeted just for who or what they naturally are!

In the words of the Pro-Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians:

“None of us is truly free until all of us are free, with all our rights intact and guaranteed, including the basic right to live without threat or harassment. And that’s why we’re Pro-Life. Just like homophobia, abortion tries to get rid of real human beings who are considered threatening or undesirable. Just like homophobia, abortion denies one’s place as a member of human society, and even one’s right to be alive in it.”

What is true of the unborn is true of Ugandan homosexuals right now (as well as a number of other countries around the world where homosexuality still faces the death penalty). We may not have the time and energy to fight every battle, but it doesn’t cost us much to lend a voice of support and concern to those fighting for their lives and freedoms. Having seen God Love Uganda, my encouragement is that you get more informed about this global crisis and human rights violation. Attend a screening of the film if it’s playing in your city, or make an effort to rent it or bring it to your library when it comes to DVD. You can also follow @godlovesuganda and @SMUG2004 on Twitter and FB.

All human lives should be regarded as valuable, regardless of where we are and how we live. We’re all part of the same family – let’s live and love like that’s true. Violence is never a good response to human differences!

– Kristine Kruszelnicki

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Meet the Pro-Life Atheists 2: Frank L. Ludwig

Meet the Pro-Life Atheists 2: Frank L. Ludwig

Posted by on Nov 29, 2013 in Pro-Life Atheists - Meet our family | 5 comments

There’s been some delay, but we’re back with another edition of Meet the Pro-Life Atheist!!! Today’s “celebrity pro-life atheist” is poet and writer Frank L. Ludwig. Frank is a true rarity: He’s an Atheist in Ireland!

Frank L. Ludwig, Pro-life Atheist

PLH: Frank, first of all, what’s it like being an Irish Atheist?

Frank: Well I’m originally from Germany, so I think that as a German in Ireland my atheistic position is more tolerated than that of the atheist natives, since I’m from a different culture. However, I’m sure they’d much prefer it if I kept my views to myself.

PLH: What are some of those views?

Frank: I’m not only atheist, I’m anti-theist. That means I openly oppose religion because of the damage it causes, both to society and to individuals.   It damages society with things like war, discrimination, violence etc. and it hurts individuals through such things as the indoctrination of children with the belief that they are worthless without a god and that they are sinners.

PLH: Have you been an atheist and anti-theist a long time?

Frank: Like all other babies I was born an atheist, but the second time I became one was when I was 13 or 14 and realized that religion and the concept of God didn’t make any sense to me. I told my parents at that time that I didn’t want to have my confirmation and they said that was fine, but that I would still have to keep attending church anyway. Since it didn’t seem to make any difference, I went ahead and had my confirmation. At the age of 16 I had a hallucination (which I think in retrospect was a coping mechanism to being forced to attend church), and it made me believe in God for a while. I became an atheist again at the age of 25.

PLH: Why do you feel it makes sense for an atheist to take a pro-life position on abortion?

Being pro-life is not about being Christian, being pro-life is about being human. I agree with the British Medical Association, and many others, who consider implantation as the beginning of a pregnancy, and therefore of a human life. I’m a Humanist, and in my opinion the right to life is the most basic human right. It is a conclusion everybody should be able to reach, regardless of their religion or absence of it.

PLH: Was there ever a time when you were pro-choice?

Frank: No, I’ve never supported abortion. In fact, when I first learned what abortion was, I associated it with conservatives – they were the ones waging wars, exploiting other countries and denying asylum to people who would be killed or who would starve in their own countries. I was shocked when I found out abortion’s advocacy came from the other side.
[PLH note: See interview with atheist pro-lifer Kristin Monohan who thought likewise about conservative vs liberal views on abortion]

PLH: Pro-lifers are certainly in the majority in Ireland, do you find it easy to be involved in pro-life activism as an atheist?

Frank: I have to admit that I don’t have a lot of contact with Irish pro-lifers, largely because of the religious rants that are most often involved. For a while I followed groups like Keep Ireland Pro-Life and Youth Defence, but most of their posts seem to pertain to Christian mythology in one way or another.   When I attended this year’s pro-life rally in Dublin I felt rather offended by their assumption that every pro-life protester there was a Christian. One of the speakers kept conjuring her deity with every sentence, saying such things as “We know that Christ died for us” or “We are here because God loves the unborn”.

PLH: Have you spoken with the leaders of these groups about how these assumptions make you feel excluded as a pro-life atheist?

Frank: Oh yes! I contacted the organizers afterwards and politely suggested they leave religion out of the discussion since it alienates non-religious pro-lifers. They replied they’d take it under advisement, but I’m not too optimistic. In general, and not only in Ireland, I get the impression that religious pro-life groups have a hard time believing atheists can be pro-life, simply because they have a hard time believing we can be at all moral. I even think that many of them want pro-life to remain an issue associated with Christianity, in order to claim moral superiority for their beliefs.

PLH: What about atheists? There are so few of you in Ireland. How do they feel about you breaking out of the typical mold by holding to a pro-life position?

Frank: Reactions to my position amongst atheists vary greatly. While some respect my views and others even understand them, I’ve also encountered militant abortion supporters who scream at me and tell me that as a male I don’t have the right to an opinion unless I agree with them.  I know one other atheist in Ireland who’s openly pro-life, and I met one atheist girl who is afraid to come out about being pro-life, and has only confided in me.

PLH: What do you believe to be the strongest of pro-life strategies?

Frank: Education. I think that most abortions are a case of ignorance. In my opinion, every mother considering an abortion should be confronted with abortion images like those produced by the Center for Bio-Ethical Reform. I’ve heard that many mothers who see pictures of aborted unborn children after the fact, change their mind about abortion and say they wouldn’t have done it if they’d known.

PLH: If people want to learn more about you and your pro-life and atheist views, where should they go?

Frank: Fans of poetry might enjoy my collection of atheist poems and my collection of pro-life poems
I’ve also written extensively on the History of Atheism, including a variety of  creative works on the topic of atheism.  Even more writings and photography on many topics, including abortion, can be found on my personal web-site.

PLH: Thanks for taking the time to introduce yourself to us, Frank!   We’ll look forward to helping you bring pro-life atheism to Ireland its neighbouring lands!

In the near future we will have Frank share with us about the status of abortion and pro-life activism in Ireland.  Be sure to check in often.  Good things always to come – including more interviews with even more awesome pro-life atheists!

Pro-Life Anti-Theist(Frank takes on an intellectual professorial look with his pipe and glasses)

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Atheists are Asking about Abortion

Atheists are Asking about Abortion

Posted by on Nov 19, 2013 in Pro-Life Atheists in Media |

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As I listen to podcasts from within the atheist community (especially ones with call-in shows), I’m reminded again and again of how CRUCIAL it is to have a visible and vocal pro-life voice among atheists.

The following are just two recent podcasts I’ve recently stumbled upon (there have been others, and i hope to offer commentary to some of the better ones), which feature atheists/free-thinkers who are calling in, unsure about the matter of abortion. Who’s going to be there in the future to give the pro-life answer to their questions? We will! (I hope! – We need to get this group funded first!)

The Thinking Atheist did a podcast on closeted atheist this week, see 17:45 – 22:41 and 25:00 where a woman called in who is still waffling as a conservative on the issue of abortion.  The host expressed an interest in doing a podcast on abortion in the new year – and yes I’ve already written to volunteer my help with that!  🙂

This one is a couple years older, though I just heard it this week. I can’t help hoping that “Jason in Denver” hasn’t already been swayed by the predominant pro-choice voice in our community and the flawed answers he received.  One thing is certain, Jason isn’t alone.   Pro-Life Humanists needs to exist – not only so that pro-life atheists have a group to belong to, but also because you and I as pro-life atheists have a unique opportunity to speak to these pro-choice and undecided men and women.  They are out there and we need to go out and find them!

Thanks for being a part of this team!

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The Dawn of the Full-time Pro-Life Atheist

The Dawn of the Full-time Pro-Life Atheist

Posted by on Nov 14, 2013 in Being a Pro-Life Atheist, Featured posts | 11 comments

 

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Twelve years ago, at an annual pro-life student symposium in Toronto, I had the privilege of sitting under the tutelage of pro-life apologist Scott Klusendorf. After leaving us rapt with awe over the simplicity of making a solid yet secular pro-life defense, Scott further impressed us with the importance of considering full-time pro-life work as a career choice. I’ll never forget his words*:

“There are more people working full-time to kill babies than there are working full-time to save them. That’s because killing babies is very profitable, while saving them is very costly – so costly that large numbers of people who say they are pro-life are not lifting a finger to stop the killing, and those that do lift a finger do just enough to salve the conscience, but not enough to actually stop the killing.”

I believe Mr Klusendorf is right about this. Most pro-life action is undertaken part-time, often by stay-at-home mothers and grandmothers, whereas abortion advocates have doctors and paid professionals, politicians, judges, lawyers, and university professors all working to propagate abortion ideology and ensure that it remains on demand. The rest of us (and by that I mean we who regularly engage the issue, say nothing of the hundreds of thousands who are pro-life in ideology but never speak or think of it unless explicitly asked) unite a few times a year for a March for Life or a Life Chain, or to attend a pro-life conference with like-minded friends. But how many of us pro-life faithfuls are involved in actual activism on a regular basis? Do we treat abortion like a hobby? Something we can devote a few hours to, here and there?

Those that do lift a finger do just enough to salve the conscience, but not enough to actually stop the killing. Could this be true? I know I feel so zealous after attending a pro-life event, but I often ask myself: am I really doing all I can do to change minds in the culture at large? How easy it is to fall into a habit of simply blogging and talking to one another! We reason that we’re making a difference because, after all, we do the occasional debating with abortion advocates on Facebook or Twitter, and perhaps we even have the occasional dialog with pro-choice friends or colleagues. But do our efforts match the intensity of the abortion death toll around us?

With approximately 44 million global abortions occurring annually, that means that every single day, more than 120,000 developing human beings beginning their lives in a position of utmost dependency just like you began yours, are being denied their opportunity at life. Every. Day. Are we acting like it? In North America alone, it’s about 4000 per day. Every. Day. Are we who got to live and who know this killing is wrong doing everything we can? I’ll wager we all could do more. And that’s why I’ve decided to make Mr Klusendorf’s challenge my own. And it’s why I’m passing it on to you.

I launched Pro-Life Humanists with the intention of ultimately building a fully-funded pro-life organization that atheists can work in. (Read this post to learn how too many pro-life organizations won’t hire atheists)
I’m asking you to consider doing one of two things:

1. Consider a full or part time career as a pro-life advocate. Join me in making it your job to become as thoroughly equipped and trained to defend the pro-life position as possible. Join me in taking the pro-life message back out into the atheist community where it’s not often heard.
2. “Hire” one of us. If you can’t make a career of pro-life work, you can become the collective employer of those who aspire to do so. A team of 100 people funding $30/mth, 60 people donating $50/mth or 200 people donating $15/mth can collectively hire (at a baseline survival level) one person to be their full-time voice for the voiceless. There are many funded pro-life organizations out there, let’s make sure there’s at least one where atheists can work!

We’re starting small and we’re part-time volunteers for now, and of course we’ll need to fund the organization too, since one of the main purposes of Pro-Life Humanists – flying to atheist conventions to dialog one-on-one with our peers – will require at least $2000 – $3000 per event, but I’m letting you know this is on the radar and you – especially if you’re a pro-life atheist who has wanted to be more active but didn’t know what you could do – are a part of this. Please be a part of this. There are so few of us and this work is vital!

I want to hear from you. Please click below or send me an email at emailicon
… and let’s chat about how you can be involved. No one is holding the door for pro-life atheists – not the majority of our atheist peers and not the majority of mainstream Christian pro-lifers. It’s up to me and it’s up to you.

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* Gregg Cunningham, director of Center for Bioethical Reform first spoke those words to Scott himself, prompting Scott to leave his job as a pastor and pursue full-time pro-life work.

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Update: Thanks for Your Support!

Posted by on Nov 6, 2013 in Pro-Life Humanists - Updates |

Thanks to those of you who donated last weekend and helped ensure our group’s web-site will continue well into the future! We now have hosting until the fall of 2016, which gives us three years to turn this group into a thriving base of pro-life atheist & humanists!

Those of you who were not able to donate this time around (yes, I know who you guys are but I love you anyway), you’ll soon have another opportunity. We’ll be raising funds to get at least two pro-life atheists and an information table to the 2014 American Atheist Convention in Utah, and a couple more conferences following. Pro-Life atheists began to come out of the closet in 2012 when I partnered with Secular Pro-Life to have a table at the American Atheist Convention/Reason Rally that year, and Pro-Life Humanists plans to continue this vital front-lines work. I hope you’ll partner with us to ensure we can continue to reach our atheist peers with the pro-life message.

Yours most truly,
Your trusty wizard & Executive Director, Kristine Kruszelnicki

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Urgent Update: Hosting Funds Needed Tonight

Posted by on Oct 31, 2013 in Pro-Life Humanists - Updates | 1 comment

Why trick when we can treat? We’ve got a little over six hours to pool together our resources to keep the Pro-Life Humanist website around well into the future! Climb on board!

It’s time to update the URL and hosting for this awesome and soon-to-be-even-more-awesome website. In the coming year, big plans are in the works that include more appearances of pro-life atheists at atheist events and conferences! If you’re loving the thought of that, you can ensure it continues. Your help is desperately needed by midnight tonight.

I just called our hosting company and they’re offering a killer Halloween special – for one day only. For $142 dollars we can renew our site and hosting privileges for not one but THREE years! That’s THREE whole years to watch this group turn into a small endeavor to an international and thriving group on the forefront of secular organizations!

Please help me make this happen and ensure this website doesn’t flounder. We’re all poor, I know, but 10 people making a $15 donation can make this happen! Any excess will go toward fund-raising for our trip to the American Atheist Convention.

I’m working on setting up a better donor system, but for now the PLH Paypal account is still in my name and you can email the funds to me at AAAemail

All donors will get a copy of the receipt and a very large thank you! Let’s make this the best Halloween treat we can give ourselves as pro-life secularists!

Thanks ever so much,
Kristine Kruszelnicki, Executive Director (and a number of other rolesm lol) of Pro-Life Humanists

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Gandhi, Non-Violence & Abortion

Gandhi, Non-Violence & Abortion

Posted by on Oct 31, 2013 in Featured posts, Poverty & Violence | 5 comments

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I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent.
—Mahatma Gandhi

A death in my family early this month played a roll in the rather lengthy pause between blog posts.  Death has a funny way of making one slow down and really take stock of one’s life and the life of others.  Especially when that death involves violence of any kind.

Non-violence and pacifism don’t often seem to go hand-in-hand with pro-life ideology.  As it happens, most pro-lifers identify with Republican and conservative values, and that, more often than not, means a support for war efforts as a means to peace.  Add the the rare yet unfortunately loud stereotype of attacks on abortion clinics to the mix, and public image of pro-lifers is far from gracious.  “Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers.. Pro-life… These people aren’t pro-life, they’re killing doctors!” intoned the late comedian George Carlin in a comedy piece that seemed at times far more commentary than comedy.

Of course, pro-life conservatives aren’t alone in holding values that appear to clash.  Leftist values that typically include non-violence and support for the weak, seem best suited to pro-life ideology.  After all, what is more violent than tearing a young developing human entity limb from limb?  How does one oppose war  and the death penalty on the grounds of protecting the innocent, while bringing to death a developing being in the earliest stages of human development, for the simple crime of being an imposition, too small and too dependent to fend for himself/herself?

During the week of September 21st to October 2nd, I had the opportunity to take part in the 2013 Ottawa Peace Festival – a week long series of lectures and workshops on the theme of non-violence.  Veterans, global justice workers, professors, and several members of both the parliament and senate, spoke on non-violent alternatives to war,  the active campaign for a Canadian Department of Peace, and the politics of Gandhi, to name a few.   A  tribute ceremony to Martin Luther King Jr and Gandhi closed out the week on October 2nd – which I learned is both Gandhi’s birthday and the United Nation’s International Day of Non-violence.

Poverty is the worst form of violence” said Gandhi.  And when one considers just how many acts of violence – abortion included – are committed on the grounds of financial and social lack, it’s easy to see that the father of non-violence may have been right.  It is my sincere belief that pro-lifers must become active in the ongoing discussions concerning social and welfare reform.  While the fact that it’s wrong to kill a human being to ease financial burdens gives us the moral high ground, we can’t simply plant our flag and refuse to consider other life issues like war and poverty that play their role in abortion (see “consistent life ethic”.)  Pro-lifers and conservatives can’t afford to take the position George Carlin simplified as: “Preborn, you’re fine.  Preschool, you’re F***ed!“.   We must all take greater interest in the efforts to implement such essentials as national daycare and national healthcare where they are lacking.  So long as we’re not willing to at least engage in discussion on how to implement solutions, we’ll be shouting upwind to a people who can’t hear us.

By the same token, my leftist pro-choice friends also need to sit up and rethink their ideals.  How can we esteem and elevate women, while leaving them with so violent a solution to the problems of social inequality?  How can we claim as Feminists and Humanists to believe in a woman’s equality, while leaving her to choose between her career or her natural childbearing potential – a thing unique to her as a woman?  It’s been a man’s world for too long, and forcing a woman to conform her body to look, act, and function like a man’s body (remaining non-pregnant) in order that she may retain the same value and potential as he, is a violence to the very nature of what it means to be a woman.

As another great leader for non-violence, Martin Luther King Jr., said:  “Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love.”  The violence of abortion, though it “appears to do good” in eliminating the unplanned child, has a permanent and deadly price-tag.  Abortion is only a temporary solution to the problems of poverty and social inequity it seeks to address, and like the violences of war and poverty, it is not the epitome of any utopia.   It is my sincerest hope that as humanity continues to evolve and to exchange our “isms” for inclusiveness and our discrimination for dignity, that we will learn to embrace the conflict of unplanned motherhood with love and non-violent solutions – to the betterment of all humanity.

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Meet the Pro-Life Atheists 1: Kristin Monahan

Meet the Pro-Life Atheists 1: Kristin Monahan

Posted by on Sep 16, 2013 in Pro-Life Atheists - Meet our family | 9 comments

Pro-Life Humanists wants to introduce you to our family! In the coming weeks we will feature the stories of pro-lifers who hold their convictions apart from any religious beliefs. This week you’re meeting Kristin Monahan.  She is a pro-life atheist and the first in our Meet the PLH Family series.

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PLH:  Kristin, you describe yourself as “a Liberal, Feminist, Atheist, Pro-Life rocker chick”.  Have you always been atheist?

Kristin: I would say that I’ve always been an atheist, even though I was never raised as an atheist.  My mom’s side of the family is entirely Mormon and we went to Mormon church when I was little, but luckily, we stopped going when I was 6 or 7. From then on, there wasn’t much religion in my life, other than hearing about it from my other family members, and what you see in the media, or friends talking about it here and there.  I started to realize I was an atheist when I was about 13 and first started hearing that there was such a thing; I realized it clicked with me.

PLH:  So you’ve sort of been a secret atheist since childhood.

Kristin:  Yes, though there were times while growing up when I was still trying to find myself and was dealing with coming out to myself as well as to my family and the world, where I may have “prayed”, in a sense, for “god” to help me find an item I’d lost in my room, or when I’d answer “Christian?” when asked what my religion was… but really, I honestly never believed any of it.  That is why I say I was always an atheist. It was just “monkey see monkey do” until I was ready to come out.

PLH:  Did you find it hard to come out as an atheist?

Kristin: It is hard because you feel like the whole world is against you.  As you know, atheism is still looked down upon and is not that common even today, so you can image that people saying things like  “I don’t care what religion you are, as long as you have one” or sitcoms that talk about god and act like it’s so horrible if someone doesn’t believe… those things can really stick with a kid and make it so much harder to be out with it –  to yourself as well as to everyone else.

I would say people are right though, at least in my experience, when they say it gets easier and easier to be out as an atheist. When I first started saying it, my mom tried to convince me that I was agnostic… I think she really just didn’t want me to be an atheist, so she figured if she could convince me I was just agnostic, that could be like some sort of compromise.  Now, I’m happy to say, my heart doesn’t beat really fast and I don’t get really nervous when I say I’m an atheist.

PLH:  Tell me about being pro-life.  How did that come about?

Kristin:  I was about 14 when I asked my mom what abortion was, because I had heard the word a few times. When she told me, I immediately knew I was against it and I couldn’t believe a thing like that existed!   I should also mention that I have always been a feminist and a liberal and I was 13 when I realized just how liberal I was.   Learning about abortion, I was certain that it could never be a liberal thing since it goes against everything that liberalism stands for: all the helping the poor, the innocent, the downtrodden, the underdogs, the helpless and voiceless, the weak, the vulnerable… Since I happen to fit in perfectly on the left, of course I was against this as well.  I assumed abortion was something conservative deadbeat dads created so that they wouldn’t have to take care of their responsibilities, and to keep women down.  As a female, I couldn’t imagine women ever going for this sort of thing, so I started off assuming bad men must have come up with it.

PLH:  You must have been in for quite a shock when you found out most feminist liberals actually advocate for abortion?

Kristin:  Somewhere along the way, my mother and brother told me it was a conservative thing to be pro-life, and a liberal and feminist thing to be pro-choice. I thought they were joking, of course!  Unfortunately, as time went on, I realized the stereotypes were true, but I never let that change my views – by then I’d already formed my liberal and feminist ideals against abortion.  To me, abortion really reinforces those old-fashioned gender stereotypes by saying that because the woman is the mother and is the one to get pregnant, she has to choose and it has to be all on her.

PLH:  How do your fellow atheist peers respond when they learn that you’re pro-life?

Kristin: It can be weird to have pro-life-bashing posts show up on your favorite atheist or liberal pages.  You try to correct them but their comments are full of stereotypes and they either won’t listen or they automatically think you are bad because you are pro-life.  I guess one thing though is that you get to laugh to yourself and say “Yeah, well I’m an atheist…” when they tell you to keep your religion out of it.

PLH:  How about pro-lifers?  How have traditional pro-lifers in your circles responded to having an atheist in their ranks?

Kristin:  It can be hard with the pro-lifers too.  But funny enough, it seems like they may be more accepting of me, even though we only agree on one thing, than are the liberals who are a lot more like me outside of this one thing.  There are still the ones who’ll always talk about god, those who say they should not be accepting non-religious pro-lifers, or those who say they should accept us just because then they can turn us to religion over time.  I find that offensive.  Please don’t do that, people!   What if we said we wanted to turn you atheist and “save” you?

PLH:  What would you say to your atheist peers and free-thinking friends who are pro-choice?

Kristin:  I always hear people say they are pro-choice or at least hate pro-lifers or have a bad view of the whole pro-life thing because of the crazy conservative religious ones or the ones who bomb abortion clinics… I really would like it if people weren’t influenced by things like that.  You shouldn’t let your view of something be defined by what other people who hold a particular position do or say or think.  We are all individuals, and there will be crazies and ignorant people on all sides of any issue. 

There are lives at stake here.  That’s why I still call myself pro-life while being an atheist, liberal, and feminist.  I definitely know what it is like to feel like an outcast, but things will always be better if you’re true to yourself.  Don’t let anyone tell you that people on your side are supposed to be like this or like that.

PLH:  If you could say one thing to your theistic pro-life peers what would it be?

Kristin:  There is the fact that people tend to brush off the pro-life side because of people using religious arguments.  Even religious people can use secular arguments against abortion.  We have science on our side –  you don’t need to bring in religion –  especially when it causes the non-religious to not take you seriously.   It shouldn’t be that hard to only argue with science and empathy toward the young… Imagine if people suddenly started using mainly religion to argue against murder in general, stereotyping people who hate murder as “religious people trying to make you abide by their religion”, and if religious people who hate murder were trying to kick non-religious people who hate murder out of their ranks, or only accepted them if they thought they might eventually convert to their religion.  Obviously atheists and non-religious people think standard murder is wrong, so why act like you have to be religious in order to think killing the unborn is wrong?

PLH:  And on that brilliant note, Kristin,  our “Liberal, Feminist, Atheist, Pro-Life rocker chick”, do you have any final words for us? 

Kristin:  Yeah, I actually just started a blog with that name in case anyone is interested: http://riotgrrrlsforlifeprolife.blogspot.com/

PLH:  I’ve seen it and there’s some awesome stuff there!  We’ll look forward to having you guest blog with PLH in the future.  Thanks for being a part of the Pro-Life Humanists family, Kristin!

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May the Fetus we Save be Gay

May the Fetus we Save be Gay

Posted by on Aug 27, 2013 in Featured posts, GLBT | 1 comment

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May the fetus you save be gay” The pro-choice slogan is oft used as a slight against pro-lifers, many of whom oppose both abortion and gay marriage on religious grounds. After all, the reasoning goes, it would serve you right if a fetus you save from abortion grows up to be gay. Would you wish he’d been aborted then? Would you still fight for his rights?

I can’t speak for all pro-lifers, but as an atheist and a Humanist, fighting for the rights and the lives of all humans is my default setting. A just society can only be called just if it truly respects and behaves fairly to all human beings. All human beings – regardless of their gender, age, ethnicity, size, appearance, physical and mental capacities, religious or political affiliation, marital or relational status, level of education, sexual orientation, or any other number of differences that may exist between human beings. Any human being is just as worthy of his or her life, freedom, and pursuit of happiness as any other human being. As a general principle, only when one’s actions threaten or harm another human being should one’s choices or freedoms be curbed.

And that’s why I’m both pro-life and pro-gay. That’s also why I marched in Ottawa’s Capital Pride parade yesterday holding the following banner:

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While in no way intended to suggest that a straight fetus would be inferior to a gay fetus, I was pleased to perform a flipperoo on the pro-choice slogan by turning it into a positive pro-gay and pro-life statement. “May the fetus you save be gay”? Ok, sure! May the fetus we save be gay indeed! (Or straight, Down’s Syndrome, intersexed… – we’ll love them all!)

After standing for the length of the parade on the sideline (with my arms losing circulation) in order to make my sign visible to parade marchers and hand out PLAGAL pamphlets to anyone expressing enthusiasm for the sign, my PLH comrade and I hopped in behind the political banners near the end of the parade stream, and danced, shimmied, and cheered our way past a surprisingly receptive crowd. A small handful of boo’s and the angry fist-raised hollerings of one woman (who kept driving past me in her wheelchair at the post-parade celebration, screaming “PROOO-CHOOOIIIICCCEEE!!! PROOO-CHOOOIIIICCCEEE!!!“) were easily outnumbered by the endless paparazzi of photographers and cheers.  Our 75 pamphlets vanished within the first couple blocks (we want to come back next year with at least 1000!) but we happily had enough for the ladies who shouted “THANK YOU!  – THANK YOU SO MUCH!” as we passed by, and for the group who went nuts dancing and clapping “YEAH!! YEAH!! PRO-LIFE!!!“. Hopefully we’ll be hearing from them.

Pro-life GLBT aren’t the norm, but just as there are more pro-life atheists than one might expect to find (an American Gallup poll found 19% of non-religious adults identify as pro-life) so too do homosexuals span a wide berth of political views, including diverse views on abortion. Pro-Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians count 800 in their current membership.

So why should GLBT be pro-life? I’ll let PLAGAL speak to that in their own words. The following summary is a series of my favourite quotes that I’ve pulled from a handful of their brochures – all of which I recommend in their entirety.

“Of all Americans, those of us in the sexual minority community have the most reason to be concerned about protecting human life. After all, we know what it is to have our lives and rights trampled on, especially the basic human right just to keep on living.” ~ 3

“None of us is truly free until all of us are free, with all our rights intact and guaranteed, including the basic right to live without threat or harassment. And that’s why we’re Pro-Life. Just like homophobia, abortion tries to get rid of real human beings who are considered threatening or undesirable. Just like homophobia, abortion denies one’s place as a member of human society, and even one’s right to be alive in it.” ~ 1

“America’s abortion on demand policy… says that some lives can be exterminated at will; birth is a privilege reserved for those deemed eligible. While that policy exists, neither gays nor lesbians — nor, for that matter, the disabled, the elderly, the terminally ill, or any other class of human beings who may be considered ‘expendable’ — are safe.” ~ 2

“If, as recent scientific discoveries suggest, homosexuality has a genetic basis, the day is not far off when doctors will be able to determine if a child in the womb is predisposed to be gay. Once medical science achieves that ability, it will be possible to do by legal, surgical procedure what all the homophobes and gay-bashers throughout history have tried and failed to do — to eliminate lesbians and gays once and for all.” ~ 2

“Today, under the guise of choice, some children are aborted simply because they are the “wrong” sex. What chance would unborn children have of being spared from abortion if they’re deemed to have the wrong sexual orientation?” ~ 4

“…When sexual orientation becomes grounds for abortions, it is difficult to argue that a fetus is not human. If we exterminate a fetus because of his or her intrinsic nature, we are acknowledging that that fetus has the qualities of a unique human being.” ~ 2

“As gay men and lesbian women, we say that all human life deserves dignity and respect. No human life should be considered expendable and the basic right to live should be guaranteed without threat or harassment. That includes the unborn, a voiceless minority with no defense against the worst of all abuses: death.”  ~ 3

“The freedom for each of us to dispose of our bodies as we see fit does not give us the freedom to dispose of someone else’s body. No one has the right to decide for others whether they will live or die. Each human life is its own justification for being.” ~ 2

“A society which offers the deaths of their children as an acceptable choice doesn’t place much value on human life, period — women’s lives included. Pro-Life lesbians and gay men work for a society where human life is better valued than it is today. Everyone’s life. Where each person is guaranteed the human rights that belong to us all, whether we are female, male, gay, straight, white, people of color, post born or pre-born. We work for real choices for women so that they do not feel that abortion is their only alternative.” ~ 1

“PLAGAL is committed to the concept that people can live together in peace regardless of sexuality, without hate, without fear. We seek a world where a woman’s right to control her body is not pitted against her child’s right to exist. We support a compassionate society where both can live.” ~ 4

“Why must we speak for unborn people? Simply because they are people. To be pro-life and pro-gay is to affirm that human rights are not discretionary.”  ~ 3


Sources
1: Victims: Lesbians, Gays… and the Unborn
2: Abortion: Another Name for Gay Bashing?
3: Under the Rainbow Flag
4: Human Rights Start When Human Life Begins

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Sound of Pro-Life Silence

Sound of Pro-Life Silence

Posted by on Aug 17, 2013 in Potpourri | 7 comments

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“Moral rescuers were people who, when asked why they risked their lives to save Jews often answered, “How else should one react when a human life is endangered?” Their concept of right and wrong was so much a part of who they were and are, that it was as if I had asked them why they breathed.”
~ Eva Fogelman, The Rescuer Self

A pro-life friend recently shared her commendation of one of our peers, who had spoken up about his pro-life views despite it going against the grain of his graduate class.  “That was really brave of you” she said.  “I don’t have the guts to say anything.  It’s just too uncomfortable for me.”   The second pro-lifer admitted that while he’s likely to display a pro-life license plate or attend a pro-life march, even he draws lines:  “I’ve learned over time that it’s ok to have different levels and types of pro-life enthusiasm.   I will go to a pro-life march and have a pro-life license tag, but I won’t put pro-life stuff on my Facebook.”  He’s had others tell him likewise that they were personally pro-life but “did not want to rock the boat.”

My dear pro-life friends: prenatal children are being dismembered every day by the thousands, and most people are either complicit or complacent about it.   Do you not think the boat could stand to be rocked a little?  How easy it is for those of us who have secured spots in the boat, to treat pro-life involvement like a hobby about which we can be enthused to varying degrees.  Were we the ones in jeopardy of being thrown out of the boat and dismembered by the sharks of abortion, my suspicion is that the situation might take on a bit more urgency for us!  Do compassion and empathy not demand that we do all we can – even to the point of making everyone sea sick – until enough people favour a change in our social course?

Speaking out against the social grain is uncomfortable.  No one likes being the odd-one out, especially when that comes with ridicule and even hate.   But when people tell me they’re too uncomfortable to speak publicly on behalf of the voiceless, I like to gently remind them that it’s probably not too comfortable for an unborn child to be dismembered and to lose his or her life either.  If we really believe the unborn are human beings, are we really justified in treating their plight and imminent deaths so casually?

When I look at youth like the five members of the White Rose, German university students who risked their lives and were executed for speaking out against the practices of the Nazis, I wonder why we can’t seem to muster up half their courage – even though our lives aren’t at risk for speaking up on behalf of the unborn.    When I look at those in the segregated south who knowingly faced the same beatings and death threats as their black neighbours, I wonder why they were so willing to risk everything to Freedom Ride with the oppressed – and yet so many of us are unwilling to risk a few Facebook friends or the verbal wrath of a professor.

Do we really believe our unborn neighbours are as human as Holocaust and Civil Rights heroes believed their neighbours to be?   Does the fact that we can’t see the unborn being victimized and can’t hear their pleas for life somehow dull our consciences a little?    We live in a society in which we have freedom of speech and where it costs us relatively little to speak up often and loudly and tirelessly on behalf of our unborn neighbours, and still so many of us think a march and a bumper sticker is exactly how we should be reacting when a human life is in danger.

It costs us relatively little to speak up.  Our pro-life silence costs many unborn children their lives – children who could be saved if more of us took abortion as seriously as we should if we truly believe abortion is taking human lives.

The time for polite silence is long past. It’s time for more of us to stand and shout and rock the boat with a lively dance upon injustice!

“Like a boil that can never be cured as long as it is covered up but must be opened with all its pus-flowing ugliness to the natural medicines of air and light, injustice must likewise be exposed, with all of the tension its exposing creates, to the light of human conscience and the air of national opinion before it can be cured.”
~ Martin Luther King Jr

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Atheists: No Room for Us in Pro-Life?

Posted by on Aug 7, 2013 in Dear Theists, Secular Voices (Guest blogs) | 21 comments

 

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My new pro-life atheist friend Sarah Terzo, author and creator of the clinicquotes.com website, recently made a splash on Live Action’s Opinion page, by responding to an article written by a pro-life Christian.  I love what Sarah has to say, in part because her experience within the pro-life movement echoes my own.  I started Pro-Life Humanists in order to have a platform from which to eventually do full-time pro-life work. (I hope to begin fund-raising for project costs in the fall, and eventually for a salary as my workload and pro-life involvement at atheist functions increases).   After many years of being told by prominent pro-life groups that on account of my atheism I could only do public activism with them as a volunteer and not as an officially affiliated staff member, I was left with few other options.  These were groups whose public activism comprises only of the use of secular arguments, and yet despite how much they loved my work (to the point of frequently asking me to train their newcomers) I couldn’t be officially on staff simply because I don’t join in the prayer meetings at the end of the day or hold to “spiritual accountability”.

Sarah has graciously allowed Pro-Life Humanists the privilege of re-publishing her words.  We will hopefully be seeing more of Sarah’s in work on our site in the future.   PLH is almost entirely comprised of atheists, and we welcome Sarah Terzo, and other non-theist pro-lifers like her, with open arms.  Hopefully the rest of the movement will eventually follow suit.

To any theist readers of this blog, please read her words carefully.  If your faith motivates you to do pro-life work, please ensure that it does not thereby hinder your pro-life work!

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On being a pro-life atheist

By Sarah Terzo

I  was very disappointed to read Live Action’s article “Shawn Carney on the pro-life movement’s greatest victory” in which he says:

“And it has to be a religious movement because we can’t face this on our own. It’s too overwhelming. And when it’s based on our faith in God it means it’s something that’s never going away. There are few things as clearly religious in our country than the pro-life movement. It is one built of people of faith. And that’s our biggest asset….But that’s a crucial point and it’s the most important point – that this is a religious movement and that it is one made up of sinners.”

In fact, there are many pro-lifers who are not Christian. And it’s attitudes like Carney’s that make it very, very difficult for us to stay in the pro-life movement.

I am an atheist pro-lifer. I am not the only one. Secular Pro-life is an organization that draws nonbelievers from many walks of life. I can honestly say, if that supportive group did not exist, I may have left the pro-life movement long ago. Why? Because it is so demoralizing to be in a movement where so many of your fellow workers simply don’t want you there.

A while back, I posted a poll in a pro-life forum, where I asked pro-lifers if they would march side by side or work with a pro-life atheist. Almost half of them said they would not. They told me that they would not want to be “unequally yoked” with a nonbeliever.

Even worse was the reaction I got when I tried to volunteer at the local crisis pregnancy center. They were open and friendly when I told them I wanted to work there. They listened when I told them I had had a great deal of experience discussing abortion on the internet, and had helped numerous women choose life. Then I told them I was an atheist. “Sorry, we are a Christian ministry” the woman said. “We don’t have atheists or nonchristians working here. But you are free to give a donation.”

I asked them if I could have a position where I wouldn’t be called upon to counsel women. Could I do paperwork or answer the phone? The answer was no. They wanted no help from me.

As an experiment, I took up the phone book and called nine crisis pregnancy centers. I did not find a single one that would allow an atheist to volunteer.

It is things like this that sap a person’s strength and bring down their morale. Being a pro-lifer is hard. I get a lot of ostracism from friends and family due to my work at Live Action. I have family members who won’t even speak to me. I have lost friends over the years because they didn’t accept my pro-life work. Getting so little support from pro-lifers is completely disheartening.

I often talk with women who are considering abortion. Yet I find myself reluctant to refer them to crisis pregnancy centers. These are places whose workers feel I am not even worthy to shuffle papers, who wanted nothing to do with me. I usually do refer them to the centers, but I never feel good about it.

As for 40 Days for Life, I tried to listen to one of their webcasts once. They started with a prayer- ok, I understand, they are a Christian group. Then we were treated to fifteen minute of rhetoric about Jesus. They made broad statements such as “We are a movement of Christians…” “As Christians we know…” By the time I was twenty minutes into the broadcast, I had to shut it off. I felt completely alienated and, quite frankly, rejected. It was the most demoralized and hopeless I have ever felt in the pro-life movement.

I actually began wondering- am I wrong? Maybe I shouldn’t be involved in pro-life activities. Maybe I just don’t have a place here. Maybe being pro-life is just for Christians, and I should stop doing so much and just let them go it alone. I have nothing in common with these people. These feelings of demoralization were so strong that I actually stopped working on my pro-life website and signed off my pro-life forums for a week or so. I needed a break to sort out my priorities. It was just too much.

I wrote to 40 Days for Life and gave some suggestions. What if, before the prayer, they said “We are happy to have pro-lifers of all religions listening, but now we want to talk to the Christians..” or “we especially want to talk to the Christians among us…” A simple change of words. It would make so much of a difference. But I never heard back, even though I wrote several times.

It is also tragic that the constant linking of the pro-life movement with religion has hurt the movement. There are many people who see pro-lifers as a bunch of religious fanatics. I have had many conversations with nonbelievers where I have discussed the pro-life issue from various angles. In some of these conversations, by the end, the person agreed with me that abortion was wrong. They thoughtfully told me they had never looked at the issue that way before. But then the conversation turned to getting involved with the pro-life movement- and everything changed. “They are just a bunch of Christian fanatics. I’m not a Christian. Why would I want to work with those holy rollers?” “It’s all about god. I’m just not a white/Republican/Christian/Straight person.”

In focusing on religious opposition to abortion, the pro-life movement has cemented into popular culture the generalization that being pro-life is the Christian thing to be. And being pro-choice is the nonreligious thing to be. So many atheists have never considered the pro-life position because they see it as a facet of Christian dogma. They wouldn’t consider going to a pro-life rally or reading a pro-life book in the way they wouldn’t consider going to church or giving their money to Pat Robertson. It simply isn’t for them.

Not to mention that many pregnant women, the very women we most want to reach, are turned off by religious rhetoric. When sidewalk counselors go up to women entering clinics and tell them “Jesus wants you to have your baby” or “the Bible says abortion is wrong” non-Christians who have no interest in religion are not likely to be moved. Roderick P, Murphy runs a crisis pregnancy center, one of the rare few that allows non-Christians to volunteer. He tells this story:

“A former director of Daybreak, a Boston-area CBC once used this true anecdote about educated women clients in an appeal letter:

Carol was afraid. How could this happen to me? She looked in the Yellow Pages and found Daybreak. Carol was a young professional woman and she was sure she wanted an abortion. She came in for a pregnancy test over lunch hour. She had questions about abortion procedures and their safety.

The counselor was able to connect with Carol closely enough to discuss risks, emotional scarring and the development of life inside her. Then she handed Carol a brochure full of great information that would further answer her questions. As Carol thumbed through the booklet, she seemed grateful for such accurate information… And then she turned to the last page. Across it was the name of the organization that printed the brochure. Among believers it was a reputable name. But because the word “Christian” stood out so clearly to Carol, she tossed the brochure into the garbage, and walked out. In that instant, our opportunity to reach her was gone.”(1)

How many Carols have there been? Some people can’t be reached with Christian arguments. They simply can’t.

Atheists get treated very badly by the pro-life movement. And pro-lifers who follow religions other than Christianity are also treated badly. There is a pro-life pagans group on Facebook, and they often attract trolls. The sad thing is that the majority of trolls they get are not pro-choicers, but pro-lifers. Pro-lifers who try to convert them to Christianity, accuse them of child sacrifice, or tell them they can’t be pro-life. It is a sad thing. I wonder how many of them will finally give up and leave the pro-life movement.

There is a reason why the pro-life movement is predominantly Christian. And it is not the reason that Carney thinks it is. The reason is that non-Christians don’t feel welcome. And while right now the pro-life movement is not exclusively Christian, if the majority of pro-lifers have the same approach to pro-life work as Carney, it soon will be – because all the non-Christians will be gone.

1. Roderick P Murphy. Stopping Abortions at Death’s Door (Southbridge, Massachusetts: Taig Publishing 2009) 57 to 58

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Thanks again, Sarah Terzo for allowing us to share your words with our readers!  🙂

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Who Cares for Women’s Health?

Who Cares for Women’s Health?

Posted by on Jul 2, 2013 in Abortion in the News | 5 comments

 

Planned Parenthood rep holds sign advocating women's health

You’ve created an environment in Texas where you’ve put women’s health at risk, and that’s the real issue here.”

Those are the words of Texas Senator Wendy Davis, a recent catapult to stardom among abortion advocates, thanks to her June 25th filibuster during which she spoke for 11 hours, in an attempt to exhaust the clock and prevent a vote on the bill.  Although a last minute vote was held with enough votes to pass the bill, the disruption of hundreds of protesters from among the spectators (what Lt. Gov. David Dewhurst defined as an “unruly mob” see footage here ) prevented the vote from being entered in time for the midnight deadline.  Undeterred, Texas Governor Rick Perry, has called the senate back for a second special session, which began yesterday July 1st and could reportedly last up to 30 days.

So what’s the big deal with this bill, and why is Wendy Davis being hailed as a champion for the health and rights of women?  What is the dreadful and health-damaging law from which Texas women must be protected?  Again and again online media has been flooded with dire warnings from Planned Parenthood and other abortion rights groups warning us that SB 5/SB 9 “will shut down 37 of 42 abortion clinics”!  Wow!  Sounds drastic! Accordingly, protesters by the bus-full have flooded the state capitol to parade coat-hangers and chant about not losing “the right to choose” in Texas.

The truth, on the other hand, may not have generated quite so many band-wagon picketers and chanters.  The fact that so many of Texas’ abortion clinics would be “shut down” is a simple side-effect of these clinics not measuring up to surgical health standards ironically put in place to ensure the health and safety of women undergoing a surgical procedure.

The bill in question:
– Limits most abortions to the first 20 weeks of a pregnancy (after which point it is believed a fetus can feel pain and abortion becomes much riskier for the woman)
– Requires that doctors performing abortions have admitting privileges at a hospital within 30 miles.
– Requires abortion clinics to meet the standards of an ambulatory surgery center. (including ambulance and gurney accessibility)
– Puts new rules around abortion-inducing medications, including requiring that women take such medicines in the presence of a doctor.

The fact is, abortion IS a surgical procedure.  One need look no further to the disastrous results of the recent Kermit Gosnell case in Philadelphia to see that later-term abortions pose an increase in risk.  A clinic not close enough to a hospital or not accessible to ambulance gurney in case of emergency is precisely how an abortion complication becomes a fatality.

Yes, fatalities occur – even under “safe & legal”.    The Center for Disease control counts 386 deaths under legal abortions in the U.S. between 1972 and 2003 – see image below.  (I do not currently have updated stats for the past decade).  And while in no-wise a complete collection yet, www.abortionsafety.com recently launched a growing data-base of reported malpractice suits in the United States for which court documents are publicly available.  These cases involve injuries to patients as well as documented negligence of patients and of health practices.

CDC abortion deaths

While it’s certainly true that injury and/or death is rare in a woman having an abortion in North America , and that most abortions since the introduction of antibiotics are largely safe (for the woman, not the unfortunate child for whom every abortion is intended to be deadly) it is nevertheless true that surgical and medical complications can and do occur.  It therefore behooves anyone who cares for the health of women – as Senator Davis and company claim to – to ensure that if women are subjecting themselves to an abortion, they won’t end up facing a punctured uterus in the middle of a rural county clinic more than 30 miles away from a hospital.

So it seems to me, dear Senator Wendy Davis and fellow protesters who thwarted the passing of SB5 and so blocked a bill that would shut down less-than-safe clinics, “You’ve created an environment in Texas where you’ve put women’s health at risk.

I do however agree with Senator Davis’ statement to Governor Perry:
“Gov. Perry… If you, truly care about women’s health, let’s do something to make sure that we’re protecting them. Let’s make sure that we’re preventing unplanned pregnancies and that we’re committing resources to make that happen. Let’s make sure that we’re working for age-appropriate sex-education in our school system… Because what we do know is that closing down the ability to access that service unfortunately does not take the need away or women’s confronting that issue away.”

Therein lies common ground on which those on both sides of the fence should unite!  Shutting down abortion clinics and making abortion illegal won’t eliminate the crises that women face when affronted by an unplanned pregnancy.  Neither, on the other hand, will abortion.   Abortion eliminates the immediate symptom of the problem, but it’s little more than a cover-over to problems of inequality and societal imbalance that make a new child appear so problematic in the first place.   As feminist writer Frederica Matthewes-Green said: “No woman wants an abortion as she wants an ice-cream cone or a Porsche.  She wants an abortion as an animal, caught in a trap, wants to gnaw off its own leg.”   Abortion sells women a sterile knife to escape the trap, but it leaves the open jaws of the trap lying in wait for the next woman.   Merely removing the sterile knife leaves women to agonize in the trap and risk self-injury.**  Neither option is a full solution.

I therefore urge anyone, whether or not you believe in the humanity of the fetus*, if you at least care about the health and the lives of women, join me in dreaming bigger.   Join me in aspiring toward real choices for women and their children.  Barring a life/death emergency, no woman and no child need ever die or be injured in abortion – be it by coat hanger, knitting needle or suction machine.   Women and our children deserve better than abortion!


* At Pro-Life Humanists we believe that the moral issue of abortion is whether or not it ends the life of a dependent human being. Abortion is not wrong merely because it hurts some women (many personal choices are harmful). If the unborn are not human beings, abortion is not a moral wrong. If they are, outside of immediate self-defense it cannot be a moral right.

** We do hope to eventually see an end to legal fetal extermination. That some women might, even under better societal circumstances still seek dangerous illegal means of killing their unborn offspring does not justify keeping abortion legal – no more than we might feel compelled to offer condoms to rapists so that they might rape another human being without bringing harm to themselves. We are nevertheless compelled as compassionate pro-lifers and Humanists to move toward an ethos of care for the born as much as for the unborn.

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Who is Lying Now?

Who is Lying Now?

Posted by on Jun 13, 2013 in Abortion in Canada | 7 comments

Irony: Complaining about "lie

Did you know that pro-lifers only account for 5% of Canada’s population and that all national pro-life organizations secretly oppose all abortions, including life-saving abortions? Neither did I. But Joyce Arthur, prominent Canadian abortion advocate would have you believe that is the case.

Her recent article, ironically entitled “Nothing but contempt: Putting the lie to media coverage of Dr. Henry Morgentaler” speaks anything but the truth about pro-life Canadians. Bemoaning the fact that the media often gave equal voice to abortion opponents, while covering the recent passing of abortion provider Dr Henry Morgentaler, Joyce Arthur says:

“Apparently, the media thinks that view has some kind of legitimacy and must be presented against the pro-choice view in the name of “balance.” Well, NO. The anti-choice position — that women must be compelled to carry every pregnancy to term under threat of criminal law regardless of circumstances — is an extremist view held by only 5 per cent of Canadians. It is also profoundly mistaken, cruel and undemocratic. As such, it does not deserve equal time or respect in Canada. That tiny 5 per cent minority has great representation though — most, if not all, anti-choice organizations in Canada adhere to that same extremist belief. They don’t advocate it openly anymore because they know the public finds it abhorrent. But don’t be fooled — their dream is to ban abortion completely with no exceptions, the same goal as other anti-choice groups around the world. (She then goes on to highlight recent and extreme cases where pregnant women have been denied life-saving surgery.)

Perhaps Mz Arthur didn’t expect her readership to click on the link she so generously supplied to back up her claim that that the pro-lifers speaking in disfavour of Dr Morgentaler were all part of a “tiny 5% minority” that necessarily included “most, if not all anti-choice organizations in Canada”. In fact, key findings of the 2013 Augus-Reid public opinion poll tell quite a different story:

In reality, only 35% of Canadians agree with Canada’s current status-quo on abortion, where any woman can have an abortion at any time during her pregnancy, with no restrictions whatsoever. Furthermore, only 43% believe the health care system should fund abortions whenever they are requested, while 42% think the health care system should only fund abortions in the event of medical emergencies. (Currently, abortions in Canada are almost entirely tax-funded through all nine months for any reason, with exception of New Brunswick where hospital but not private clinic abortions are covered). And while 59% of Canadians say they do not wish to reopen the abortion debate, it’s important to note that only 23% of those polled were previously aware that abortion is legal throughout all nine months without restriction (a reality that 65% do not agree with).

In other words, Henry Morgentaler’s national legacy of tax-funded abortion on-demand and without restriction finds disagreement and varying degrees of discomfort and/or unawareness with a majority of Canadians. It is blatantly dishonest of Joyce Arthur to lump all such disagreements into the tiny 5% that would deny life-saving intervention to a pregnant woman.

So what are we to make of that 5% anyway? Do they indeed represent the future if Canada becomes a pro-life country like Ireland and El Salvador, who made recent headlines for their refusals to allow pregnant women to undergo life-saving surgery that would jeopardize their fetus? Is Ms Arthur correct in assuming that a pro-life country would ultimately lead to Canadian women facing similarly life-threatening fates?

In a word: no. Guidelines were in place in Ireland that should have allowed the Irish woman to obtain necessary medical attention, and I am grieved that similar protections were not in place in El Salvador. That these women were delayed or denied treatment is more attributable to malpractice than to pro-life philosophy. The vast majority of pro-lifers believe in saving the greatest number of lives, and if a pregnant woman’s life is threatened, it makes no sense to lose two lives rather than intervene and save at least one. Receiving life-saving medical care is not a privilege belonging only to non-pregnant women, and I believe that hospitals that fail to provide timely care and to save at least one life are in the wrong and not being pro-life at all. The solution is not to do away with pro-life laws and thinking, but to enact them more appropriately so that they might save the lives they were intended to save.

That said, let’s be clear that Mz Arthur’s interest in painting pro-lifers with an extremist brush, and her concern for women in life-threatening situations is not merely a concern for these women. Joyce Arthur and most of her fellow abortion advocates want to protect the status quo of abortion on demand. It is always easier to hide behind the harder cases of rape, incest, and life of mother when trying to frighten people away from debating or discussing abortion. It is certainly easier to pretend that pro-lifers are all “anti-choice extremists” with no concern for dying women when attempting to silence those who would question the status quo.

Make no mistake about it: Canadians are largely divided on Morgentaler’s legacy, and as long as free speech is still a right belonging to all Canadians, the newspapers will be more than justified to include pro-life voices. And make no mistake about it, Joyce Arthur: we’re not going away and we’re not shutting up simply because you tell tall tales about who we are and what we’re truly about.

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Dr Henry Morgentaler vs Pro-Life Humanism

Dr Henry Morgentaler vs Pro-Life Humanism

Posted by on May 30, 2013 in Abortion in Canada, Featured posts, Humanism & Morality | 5 comments

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He broke the law and became a national hero.  That’s the story of Dr. Henry Morgentaler, the abortion provider credited for Canada’s current lack of abortion laws.  Dr. Morgentaler passed away of a heart attack May 29th 2013, at the age of 90.

Morgentaler has been aptly called in his biography by Catherine Dunphy, a “difficult hero”.     “Difficult” may be putting it far too mildly, and “hero” naturally depends on one’s point of view.  Certainly it can be said of the man who performed abortions while they were still illegal, challenging the abortion laws to the point of going to jail, that he was a consistent advocate for abortion and a true believer in his cause.     It takes courage to go against the grain of one’s society, and as a Humanist and activist, I honour that in him – even if I disagree with the cause he championed.

Dr. Morgentaler’s story is a fascinating one.  A Holocaust survivor, having been interned in both Auschwitz and Dachau concentration camps in his youth, he immigrated to Montreal, Canada in 1950 where he studied medicine and became a family physician.  After specializing his practice to family planning and becoming one of the first physicians to perform vasectomies and to offer contraception to unmarried women, his clientele increasingly turned to him with requests for elective (non-life threatening) abortions.  Abortion was illegal in Canada prior to May 14th 1969, and afterward only legal when performed in hospitals under the approval of a Therapeutic Abortion Committee.   Morgentaler defied the law and was thrown in jail for his efforts, facing a decades-long legal battle in court case after court case.    In January of 1988 the Supreme Court of Canada ruled that Prime Minister Trudeau’s 1969 Omnibus law on abortion violated women’s “right to life, liberty and security of the person” as per section 7 of the Charter of Rights and Freedoms, and the inadequate abortion laws were struck down, leaving a legislative void on abortion in its place.

Now it has not escaped my notice as a pro-life Humanist that Dr. Henry Morgentaler also identified as a Humanist.  In fact, Morgentaler was the first president of the Humanist Association of Canada, from 1968 to 1999, and he remained its honorary president after that.   I had the privilege of rubbing shoulders with some of his long-time friends and colleagues at a recent Humanist Association Christmas party in Ottawa, and it was evident how revered he  still is among Canada’s Humanists.   The American Humanist Association likewise honours him, and named him their 1975 Humanist of the Year.    I met Dr. Morgentaler briefly in 2004 and have been saddened by threats to his life and property made by more extreme opponents of abortion.  As a Humanist I found him to be quite personable and couldn’t help but like him, his stance on abortion aside.

“The fact that some people are opposed to abortion on religious grounds doesn’t bother me as long as they are not allowed to influence other people by force or by other means,” Dr. Morgentaler said in 2008.  “… I believe as a medical doctor my duty was to help humans, and I did it.”     Morgentaler assumed what most people assume: that opposition to abortion is primarily if not entirely religiously grounded.   He also assumed that the best way to help a woman facing a crisis pregnancy is to eliminate the pregnancy, rather than the crisis.   I believe he was wrong on both counts.

Pro-life Humanists are now the ones going against the grain.   After all, the 1973 Humanist Manifesto II (article six) clearly names abortion as a right that should be recognized along  with the right to contraception and divorce.   Nevertheless, all versions of the Humanist Manifesto and its subsequent declarations lend themselves toward a belief in egalitarian treatment of all human beings.   Article eleven of Manifesto II speaks eloquently of our particular obligation toward the disadvantaged and those unable to support themselves.   Included in that list are “the mentally retarded, abandoned or abused children, the handicapped… [and] all who are neglected or ignored by society.” Developing humans in utero, biologically members of our species though too young to possess the strength, awareness, or physical functions for independent living, demand on account of their dependence and vulnerability more special care and support – not less.   Their current age-related mental and physical state does not translate into a justification for extermination.

Dr Morgentaler frequently justified his illegal abortions by citing “necessity“.   He argued that women would seek illegal and dangerous abortions if he didn’t help them out.   While I appreciate that his intentions in trying to help women were for the good, I think the doctor ultimately failed in his attempt to increase freedom for women.  Freedom that comes at the expense of a weaker and more vulnerable being is not freedom at all.  It’s tyranny.   More to the point, society has not elevated women by removing their pregnancies from the equation.  The very same problems of inequality that make it so challenging for a woman to couple motherhood with career and education are not eradicated by the abortionist’s suction.   They remain an entrapment for the next woman and the woman after her.   Abortion puts a band-aid over society’s blistering pus  while never actually addressing the root infection that causes a pregnancy and a new human life to be so problematic in the first place.    If abortion appears necessary, and if any woman is so desperate to escape the trap she finds herself in that she will resort to dangerous surgery, perhaps it’s not abortion that she needs, but real choices and a reform of society itself?

Pro-life feminist and author Frederica Matthewes-Green once stated that “no woman wants an abortion as she wants an ice cream cone or a Porsche. She wants an abortion as an animal caught in a trap wants to gnaw off its own leg.”   Abortion providers like Dr Morgentaler correctly perceive the trap, but they merely offer the woman a sterile knife to aid in the amputation.   Real help does not sacrifice one human life at the expense of another, but goes to the source of the trap to unscrew the hinge and free both.

Dr Henry Morgentaler has died but his legacy, along with the false beliefs of abortion as the salvation and equalizer of women, are still very much alive.  Believing that he was improving the lives of women, Dr Morgentaler sacrificed a generation of future women and men whose lives were cut short before they’d drawn their first breath.  Pro-Life Humanists dare to imagine better.   We seek a world in which all humans are equally valued and where pregnancy isn’t a desperate problem in search of a desperate solution.   In the words of another feminist writer Germaine Greer: “Too many women are forced to abort by poverty, by their menfolk, by their parents … A choice is only possible if there are genuine alternatives.”

Dr Morgentaler, we are Humanists — and more than that, we are Pro-Life Humanists.  Most of us are survivors of the generation your work diminished by a third, and we reject the “solution” you offered our mothers and their peers.   We seek to make your “necessity” both unnecessary and unthinkable.   We believe we can do better than abortion.

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The Toenail that Became a Human Being

Posted by on May 22, 2013 in Featured posts, Science, Stats, & Facts | 7 comments

Once upon a time there was a toenail that grew on a woman and magically developed eyes, ears, arms and legs until nine months later it fell off and became a little girl.  And that’s comparable to the way babies are made.  Apparently.

Ok, so that wasn’t quite what my friendly twitter comrade said to me this morning, but it may as well have been.    A toenail, as I understand her claim, is analogous to a fetus growing inside a woman.  Just as the woman is justified in cutting off an unwanted toenail, so she is perfectly justified in cutting off a fetus who is just as much a part of her.  “My body my toenail.”

To some degree, I agree with my twitter friend.   That’s why I believe the question of the nature of the fetus has utmost relevance when discussing matters like abortion.  After all, there’s no discussion needed if the fetus is not a human being.  Women should always retain full autonomy of their own bodies and not be burdened by any unwanted body part.  Cut off your hair, cut off your toenail, cut off your arm if you wish.  Your body.

But  on the other hand, if the fetus is a human being, then we enter the realm of ethics and competing rights.    If a fetus is its own separate and whole human entity, developing in a place of dependence and vulnerability through no fault of his own, then a number of new arguments can be made:  that a parent has a basic obligation to feed and shelter her biological offspring, that a fetus has as much a right to his natural environment as the rest of us have to our own biosphere, and that a fetus’ dependence and vulnerability obligates us to them more, rather than less.

So what does science tell us?  Is the fetus its own separate body developing within another body?  Or is the fetus a part of his or her mother’s body like her appendix or her toenail?

First, let me be clear about the limits of science.  Science does not and can not confer personhood; neither can it tell us which human traits matter to the equal recognition of a human being as a person.  Those are ethical and philosophical concerns.  But what science can and does tell us is that biologically, a human being acquires his or her genetic blueprint and internal directives for ongoing development at fertilization.  Then and only then do parts converge to make a new and separate whole.

Parts vs Wholes

There is no such species as “sperm” or “ovum”.  Sperm and ovum are not distinct unique organisms.  They are in fact complex specialized cells belonging to the larger organism, namely the male and female from which they came.   In other words, they are, like skin cells and blood cells, alive and bearing human DNA but nonetheless parts of another human being, even when mobile like the sperm.

Sperm and ovum lose their individual identity and their function as sperm and ovum once they have merged.  Instead of being parts carrying 23 chromosomes from two different human beings, the unification and merging of their chromosome pairs has now created a new whole with a new set of chromosomes and a cellular structure that now contains the inherent capacity to grow and develop itself through all stages of human development.  This of course is  something that neither sperm nor ovum parts had the inherent capacity to do on their own.  It’s something that only whole human beings can do.

Furthermore, among the factors that differentiate an infant from his or her biological parents one may note his or her unique DNA (unless he was cloned from aforementioned toenail or other cell through somatic cell nuclear transfer, which I plan to address in future entries), perhaps a unique blood-type, and a gender that is different from one of his or her biological parents.    The same can also be said of his younger, smaller, and more dependent self in utero.

The embryo and fetus are entirely dependent on and living in the mother’s body, but they are not a part of the mother’s body.   Healthy women’s bodies don’t grow organs and body parts of a differing DNA than their own.  Their bodies don’t have four arms, four legs and an extra set of genitalia that may even be male.

So once upon a time there was a toenail that grew on a woman and was a part of her body with her body’s DNA, and had absolutely nothing biologically in common with her dependent offspring who was living within her.

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As a materialist, I think it has been demonstrated that an embryo is a separate body and entity, and not merely (as some people really did used to argue) a growth on or in the female body...”
                       ~ Christopher Hitchens; God is Not Great

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A Secular Case Against Abortion

A Secular Case Against Abortion

Posted by on May 13, 2013 in Featured posts, Reasoned Arguments | 154 comments

The following piece was originally submitted to The Humanist after their September/October edition of the Humanist featured an article by Marco Rosaire Rossi questioning the existence of pro-life atheists.   The piece, though as extensive as possible in answering standard pro-choice arguments, was ultimately rejected because it didn’t answer a number of other questions (including contraception and early vs late-term abortion) that a 2,500 word limit simply could not allow.    While I hope to work with the editor for a future re-write, here is the original piece for your reading:


A SECULAR CASE AGAINST ABORTION

By: Kristine Kruszelnicki

“Is there really such a thing as a pro-life atheist?” asked Marco Rosaire Rossi in the September/October edition of the The Humanist.  “What’s next, Intelligent Design Agnostics?  How about Secularists for Sharia Law?”

Atheists may not have a pope, but in the eyes of many there is still a proper dogma that all good atheists must adhere to.   To be an atheist is to support abortion.   Fail to do so and you will be denounced as “secretly religious.”   When I joined an agnostic and an atheist from Secular Pro-Life for an information table at the 2012 American Atheist Convention, a popular atheist blogger accused us outright of having “actually lied about being atheist.”  [Edit: She also seriously misheard and misconstrued the point of my green banana analogy!]

There is an obvious reluctance to accept that non-religious pro-lifers exist.   But we do exist.   While we differ somewhat in our approaches and philosophies, our numbers include atheist thinkers like Robert Price, author of “The Case Against the Case for Christ,” civil libertarian writer Nat Hentoff,  philosophers Arif Ahmed and Don Marquis, and liberal anti-war  activist Mary Meehan, to name a few.

The late atheist author Christopher Hitchens, when asked in a January 2008 debate with Jay Wesley Richards whether he was opposed to abortion and was a member of the pro-life movement, replied:
“I’ve had a lot of quarrels with some of my fellow materialists and secularists on this point, [but]  I think that if the concept ‘child’ means anything, the concept ‘unborn child’ can be said to mean something.  All the discoveries of embryology [and viability] – which have been very considerable in the last generation or so – appear to confirm that opinion, which I think should be innate in everybody.  It’s innate in the Hippocratic Oath, it’s instinct in anyone who’s ever watched a sonogram.   So ‘yes’ is my answer to that.”

Secular pro-lifers include seasoned atheists and agnostics, ex-Christians, conservatives, liberals, vegans, gays and lesbians, and even pro-lifers of faith, who understand the strength of secular arguments with secular audiences.   The following secular case against abortion  is one perspective, and does not represent any single organization.


Abortion, The Complex Issue?

Abortion is an emotionally complex issue, stacked with distressing circumstances that elicit our sympathy and compassion, but abortion is not morally complex:    If the preborn are not human beings equally worthy of our compassion and support, no justification for abortion is required.  Women should maintain full autonomy over their bodies and make their own decisions about their pregnancies.    However, if the preborn are human beings, no justification for abortion is morally adequate, if such a reason cannot justify ending the life of a toddler or any born human in similar circumstances.

Would we kill a two year-old whose father suddenly abandons his unemployed mother, in order to ease the mother’s budget or prevent the child from growing up in poverty?    Would we dismember a young preschooler if there were indications she might grow up in an abusive home?    If the preborn are indeed human beings,  we have a social duty to find compassionate ways to support women, that do not require the death of one in order to solve the problems of the other.

Science vs Pseudoscience

While some abortion advocates have accused pro-lifers of using “pseudoscience”,  in fact scientific evidence strongly backs the pro-life claim that the human embryo and fetus are biological members of the human species.    Dr. Keith L. Moore’s “The Developing Human: Clinically Oriented Embryology,” used in medical schools worldwide, is but one scientific resource confirming this knowledge.  It states:
“Human development begins at fertilization, the process during which a male gamete or sperm (spermatozoo development) unites with a female gamete or oocyte (ovum) to form a single cell called a zygote. This highly specialized, totipotent cell marked the beginning of each of us as a unique individual.”

Unlike other cells containing human DNA – sperm, ovum and skin cells, for instance – the newly fertilized embryo has complete inherent capacity to propel itself through all stages of human development, providing adequate nutrition and protection is maintained.   Conversely, sperm and ovum are differentiated parts of other human organisms, each having their own specified function.   Upon merging, both cease to exist in their current states, and the result is a new and whole entity with unique behavior toward human maturity.   Similarly, skin cells contain genetic information that can be inserted into an enucleated ovum and stimulated to create an embryo, but only the embryo possesses this self-directed inherent capacity for all human development.

Defining Personhood

The question of personhood leaves the realm of science for that of philosophy and moral ethics.   Science defines what the preborn is, it cannot define our obligations toward her.   After all, the preborn is a very different human entity than those we see around us.  Should a smaller, less developed, differently located and dependent being be entitled to rights of personhood and life?

Perhaps the more significant question is: are these differences morally relevant?   If the factor is irrelevant to other humans’ personhood, neither should it have bearing on that of the preborn.    Are small people less important than bigger or taller people?    Is a teenager who can reproduce more worthy of life than a toddler who can’t even walk yet?   Again, if these factors are not relevant in granting or increasing personhood for anyone past the goal post of birth, neither should they matter where the preborn human is concerned.

One might fairly argue that we do grant increasing rights with skill and age.   However, the right to live and to not be killed is unlike the social permissions granted on the basis of acquired skills and maturity, such as the right to drive or the right to vote.   We are denied the right to drive prior to turning 16; we are not killed and prevented from ever gaining that level of maturity.

Similarly, consciousness and self-awareness, often proposed as fair markers for personhood, merely identify stages in human development.   Consciousness doesn’t exist in a vacuum.  It  exists only as part of the greater whole of a living entity.   To say that an entity does not yet have consciousness is to nonetheless speak of that entity within which lies the inherent capacity for consciousness, and without which consciousness could never develop.

As atheist Nat Hentoff points out, “It misses a crucial point to say that the extermination can take place because the brain has not yet functioned or because that thing is not yet a ‘person’.   Whether the life is cut off in the fourth week or the fourteenth, the victim is one of our species, and has been from the start.”

The inherent capacity for all human function lies within the embryo because she is a whole human entity.   Just as one would not throw out green bananas along with rotten bananas though both lack current function as food, one cannot dismiss a fetus who has not yet gained a function, alongside a brain-dead person who has permanently lost that function.   To dismiss and terminate a fetus for having not yet achieved a specified level of development is to ignore that a human being at that stage of human development is functioning just as a human being of that age and stage is biologically programmed to function.

Location and Singular Dependency

Pointing to the Universal Declaration of Human Rights in support of his position that “human beings as persons are born,”   Mr. Rossi declared: “The fact of the matter is birth transforms us.  It simultaneously makes us into individuals and members of a group, and thus embeds in us rights-bearing protections.”

This claim is grossly fallacious.   First, what is does not necessarily represent what should be.    The fact that social conventions of personhood disregard the preborn human is no surprise, and in fact the very matter in dispute.   Second, birth possesses no such magical powers of transformation.    At birth a developing human changes location, begins to take in oxygen and nutrients in a new manner, and begins to interact with a greater number of other humans.   But a simple journey through the birth canal does not change the essential nature of the entity in question.

In fact, bio-ethicist Peter Singer agrees with the pro-lifer on this point.   He argues:  “The pro-life groups were right about one thing, the location of the baby inside or outside the womb cannot make much of a moral difference.  We cannot coherently hold it is alright to kill a fetus a week before birth, but as soon as the baby is born everything must be done to keep it alive.”   (Singer then goes on to argue that since there is no significant difference between a late-term fetus and a newborn, infanticide is thereby justified.)     Birth is undoubtedly a significant moment in our lives, but it is not our first moment.

So what of dependency?    Assuredly, a fetus is significantly more dependent on his or her mother than at any other time in his or her life.   But are dependent humans not fully human?   Does a conjoined twin’s dependence on a sibling’s heart or lungs disqualify her from personhood?    May we kill severely dependent adults or an infant who cannot even raise his own head, let alone feed, shelter himself, or walk away?

If the issue is what Rossi calls “absolute dependence [on] our mothers,”  a further question must be asked:  Why does dependence on a single person mean one is not valuable or worthy of life and protection?     If a wayward child were to find his way onto a stranger’s yacht only to be discovered  a day later at sea, he would be temporarily dependent on that sailor’s resources alone.   Would the sailor be justified in tossing the child overboard into shark-infested waters?

Moreover, is it truly the mark of a civilized people that the more vulnerable and dependent a human is, the more we can justify his or her death?    Is “might-makes-right”  the best we can do as a modern and sophisticated people faced with a vulnerable being and a woman in crisis?

Rape and Bodily Autonomy

Nothing adds more emotion to the already emotional debate of abortion than the issue of rape.  It is, however, vital that one does not confuse abhorrence of rape and desire to comfort the victim, with the fundamental question of whether hardship justifies homicide.   If the preborn is a human being, the circumstances of one’s conception have no bearing on his or her right to not be exterminated.

Judith Jarvis Thompson’s “Unplugging the Violinist” (a fictional scenario in which one is kidnapped by  friends of a dying violinist in need of a kidney, and forced to remain plugged into him for nine months in order to save his life) illustrates the dilemma of bodily autonomy, while suggesting grounds for abortion in cases of rape.

However, Thomson fails to recognize that the relationship between a preborn and her mother is unlike an artificial union of one stranger to another.   The fetus is not an intruder.  She is in the rightful home of a human being at her age and stage of development.   Unlike the kidneys, which exist for the woman’s body, the uterus exists and each month prepares to welcome someone else’s body.   A woman has a right to her body, but so too a fetus has a right to the uterus that is her biologically-given home.

Furthermore, recognizing the biological responsibilities with which we have evolved as a species, we understand that while one is not always morally obligated to a stranger, one is obligated to provide basic sustenance and protection to one’s biological offspring.   A breast-feeding mother can’t claim ‘bodily autonomy’ and abandon her infant in the basement while she travels; neither can a pregnant mother abandon her responsibility to a dependent human child.    While the rape victim did not choose and is unfairly put into this position, her basic obligation to her dependent human offspring is no less real than that of the sailor with an unwanted stowaway.

Abortion does not merely “unplug a dying stranger,” abortion actively dismembers and kills an otherwise healthy human being who is in an age-appropriate, naturally dependent union with his or her mother.   Rebecca Kiessling, conceived in rape, says: “I may not look the same as I did when I was four years old or four days old yet unborn in my mother’s womb, but that was still undeniably me and I would have been killed [for my father’s crime].”

Abortion neither unrapes a woman nor helps her heal.  Let’s punish the rapist, not his child.

Personally pro-life – But don’t change the law?

Finally, some will respond to the burden of science and reason by admitting that they are “personally pro-life” but wish abortion to remain legal so that it may remain safe.   Without taking time to delve into the statistics on legal vs illegal abortions, the numbers that were performed illegally in doctor’s clinics or the role antibiotics played in making abortion safer even before Roe vs. Wade, the question is necessarily begged:  safe for whom?

If one is “personally opposed” because he believes abortion ends human lives, it makes no sense to say that the ending of human lives should remain legal in order to save lives.  Whether legal or illegal, all abortions kill.   Sometimes the mother, but always her son or daughter.

Conclusion

Feminist author Frederica Matthews-Green once pointed out that “No woman wants an abortion as she wants an ice cream cone or a Porsche. She wants an abortion as an animal caught in a trap wants to gnaw off its own leg.”    The challenge for our ever-evolving society  is this:    Are we going to hand the woman a hack-saw and help her amputate her leg?   Or are we wise and capable enough to come up with creative ways of removing the offending trap, without destroying the leg in the process  –  especially when that “leg” is a fellow human being?

Society can continue to pit women against their preborn offspring, or we can begin to talk about real choices, real solutions and real compassion – such as those suggested by groups like Feminists for Life.    The secular pro-life philosophy means including the smaller and weaker members of our species, and not excluding the dependent and vulnerable from rights of personhood and life.     We have evolved as a species into a complex and inter-dependent community that is gradually doing away with prejudices like racism,  sexism, and ableism.    Let us now dispense with the lethal discrimination of ageism.

In the words of the Pro-Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians:  “None of us is truly free until all of us are free, with all our rights intact and guaranteed, including the basic right to live without threat or harassment.”

We can do better than abortion.

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We Want to See Reason Lifted High

We Want to See Reason Lifted High

Posted by on May 12, 2013 in Dear Theists | 10 comments

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As the 2013 Canadian March for Life launched to a live band singing “We Want to see Jesus lifted high” (to be followed up with choruses of “Yes! Yes! Lord” and a myriad of other worship songs), I was yet again reminded of how out of place I am as an atheist in the pro-life movement.    I’m pro-life because every embryology or biology text book tells me that a new human entity comes into existence at fertilization, and I believe that all human beings – even at their youngest and earliest stage of development – deserve equal right to life and protection.  Most assuredly, my goal in being in the movement is not to “see Jesus lifted high”.

I’m not alone.   It’s not merely pro-life atheists who are apt to feel excluded from pro-life involvement.  How likely is it that a Jew might want to see Jesus lifted high?   Or a pro-life Muslim?   Or even a pro-life pagan or the myriads of Hare Krishna followers who respect all life, including animal life?   I have met pro-lifers who affiliate with all these non-Christian belief systems, but few of them feel comfortable participating in traditional pro-life events.  Is the goal of the pro-life movement Christian evangelism?   Or is it truly to save unborn lives?

I addressed in blog entry Pray to End Abortion? why I believe the tendency to paint the pro-life movement as something that is Christian-only is problematic and detrimental to our movement.  To reiterate briefly: in order to win a political majority in this country we will require the yes vote of people from all religious and political stripes.    Wearing our most religious colours so loudly, our movement tells every onlooker who does not seek to affiliate with Christianity, that they should just go ahead and ignore us.   We further the misconception that abortion, unlike every social ill prior, simply cannot cease within  secular society.

Don’t get me wrong:  I don’t think that Christians should necessarily hide their faith.   I appreciate that for many, it is their religious convictions that compel them to care about “the least of these”, per the instruction of Jesus.  I may be embarrassed by the men in feathered hats, the church groups chanting the rosary, and the man doing interpretive dancing with his giant crucifix, but I do respect their right to be a part of the movement.   I do however, think that all Christians should seriously consider the appropriateness of their public displays and ask themselves whether there might not be a better way of reaching a curious onlooker with sound pro-life arguments,  than by performing a religious ritual.    It is after all science and reason that bolster the position that the “least of these” is in fact one of us.

That being said, my plea to organizers of the March for Life and similar public events is this:  Can we please keep the public face of the pro-life movement secular and inclusive to individuals of all faith and no faith?    Let groups and individuals pray and chant on their own if they must.   Church groups certainly have a right to their vigils and prayer meetings.  But when we stand on the podium to address the nation, can we set aside the exclusive Christian prayers and songs?   History is after all ripe with inspirational peace and freedom songs to remind us all that we are following in a long line of champions of human rights.

Science and reason provide arguments that can be understood and received by anyone, regardless of their faith convictions.     It is my deepest hope that from here on in, the pro-life movement will collectively seek to see reason and  biological facts lifted high.

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ProLife Gays and Lesbians

ProLife Gays and Lesbians

Posted by on May 8, 2013 in Dear Theists, GLBT | 4 comments

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My dear pro-life friends,

On the eve of Canada’s annual March for Life, the event commemorating May 14th 1969 when abortion first became legal in Canada, the brilliant but often offensive comedian George Carlin  comes to mind.   Every year I listen to members of parliament and prominent pro-life speakers stand at the podium and declare the pro-life movement’s intent to not only bring abortion to an end, but also to “bring this country back to God” and worse still “to restore the traditional meaning of marriage as one man and one woman”.    The mixing of issues grated on me even when I was a theist and now that I’m an atheist it does so even more.

Carlin had this to say about pro-lifers, in his comedy piece on abortion:
“Catholics and other Christians are against abortions, and they’re against homosexuals. Well who has less abortions than homosexuals?! Leave these fucking people alone, for Christ sakes! Here is an entire class of people guaranteed never to have an abortion!  And the Catholics and Christians are just tossing them aside! You’d think they’d make natural allies.”

While Carlin’s entire Back in Town track entitled “Abortion is brimming with fallacious arguments, on this point I believe he hit the bull’s eye!    I personally know pro-life atheists and theists who will no longer come to the pro-life events because they felt entirely demonized by pro-life speakers on account of their homosexuality or bisexuality.    Individuals who would happily advocate to save children from prenatal discrimination and death are being told both subtly and overtly that they are really not welcome to participate in the movement just the way they are.

As a pro-life atheist I have faced similar discrimination repeatedly.   It so happens I have a will of steel, but I sympathize with those who don’t have the resolve to subject themselves to a brood of evangelists thirsty for souls to change and purify.   Attending the March for Life last year with a sign that read “This is what an Atheist Pro-gay, Pro-life Feminist looks like“.   I found myself on several occasions being literally swarmed with priests and other Catholics who wanted to debate me and point out “the absurd and  impossibly anti-life philosophy of claiming to be both pro-gay and pro-life.”   Instead of embracing me as an ally and being happy that someone outside the Catholic church agreed and wanted to fight with them on the matter of fetal rights, I was viewed with skepticism and even a certain amount of disdain.

The fact is, just as there are pro-life atheists and humanists, there are pro-life gays and lesbians, and the Pro-Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians does a great job of explaining the many reasons why.   If pro-life theists turn gays and lesbians away or refuse to accept them as they are without trying to change them, is it any surprise that most openly gay individuals identify with the far more welcoming pro-choice community?   As with atheists, members of the GLBT community can either be your pro-life allies or your enemies.   I may be bad at math, but I don’t think that a movement seeking a pro-life majority can really afford to toss its would-be allies overboard.

Tomorrow is another March for Life and my open request to all pro-life Canadians is this: stop mixing the issues.  We all belong to this movement.  Please do not demand that we all become heterosexual theists abstaining until a condomless marriage before you will embrace us as one of your own.   There is more than one way to create a world that does not kill its preborn children.

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Pray to End Abortion?

Pray to End Abortion?

Posted by on May 1, 2013 in Dear Theists | 1 comment

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‘Signs, signs, everywhere signs,” says the classic oldie.    Go to any traditional pro-life event and you’ll see them:  Virginal Mary and child emblazoned in a holy light, the famed pro-life icon Lady of Guadalupe, and rosary-bedecked signs a-plenty, imploring us all to “pray to end abortion”.

To the secular onlooker, the display of religiosity is plainly silly.  Not only does it reaffirm the widely held belief  that the pro-life position is merely a religious one to be disregarded by anyone outside of religion, it furthermore asks prayer of those least likely to be inclined to pray against a practice they don’t see as wrong.

But is that so big a deal?   Other than looking silly, can any harm come from overtly religious pro-life presentations and public requests for prayer?   Here are three reasons why I believe the signs are a detriment:

1. Image matters.  The pro-life movement isn’t supposed to be a pep-rally, and it’s about time we start acting like we’re trying to move with our movement.    How pro-lifers are perceived matters to how our message will be received.     Religious icons and calls to prayer may comfort and reaffirm the faith-based pro-lifer, but they do little to persuade those passing by on the sidewalk that we are anything more than a church that fell out into the street.   If our goal is to see more of them join us, we’d do well to not given them further cause to disregard us.

2. Rallies and demonstrations are an opportunity for education.  We know we have good arguments on our side.  Science, humanist philosophy, and reason combine to absolutely work in our favour.   When addressing an increasingly secular world, these are the best and sharpest tools we ought to be pulling out of our kit.  The average onlooker to a pro-life event may never have dialogued with an intelligent pro-lifer and our signs may be their only source of education.  If our best case appears to be icons of Mary and appeals to prayer, onlookers are all the more likely to throw out the fetus with the holy water.

3. Prayer might be used in place of action.  I can vividly recall attempting to recruit pro-life Christians to pro-life activism and outreach events.  Too often I would hear “I’ll pray for you guys” in place of a commitment to participate.  If you were choking, would you hope the person nearest you would merely pray to dislodge the item in your windpipe?   Or would you hope that he would use the best tools and training at his disposition and perform the Heimlich?

The idea that the best thing one can do for the unborn is to pray for them, ignores the myriad of things one can do to help make abortion unthinkable.   If it turns out that there is a God, we have to accept that for some reason or another, he has permitted abortion to remain legal and is permitting abortion to continue, despite 40 years of prayers being prayed on behalf of the unborn. Humanism offers a solution that works whether or not there is a God listening to prayers.  Humanism says:  we made the mess, we should clean the mess.   I can only presume that if there is a God he would want us busy doing our best to change minds and laws with the means within our power, not sitting around waiting for him to do all the work.

You’ve prayed to end abortion for more than 40 years.  Why not try adding reason, science, logic and philosophical into your arsenal, and see if we can’t finally bring abortion to an end?

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Rosary-Free Pro-Lifers

Rosary-Free Pro-Lifers

Posted by on Mar 28, 2013 in Secular Perspectives | 2 comments

 

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It used to be easy to know who one’s friends and allies were.  If one was an atheist, they were left-wing liberals and pro-choice.  Christians were of course right-wing conservatives, and all opponents of abortion followed the pope and practiced the rhythm method.  Gays and lesbians were of course allies of the pro-choice movement and everyone stayed in their own corner of the political arena.

Not any longer.

Yes, atheists can be pro-life.  Yes, there are a surprising number of pro-life gays and lesbians.  And yes, it’s entirely possible to have premarital sex, support contraception, and yet oppose the killing of prenatal human beings.  What ever is this world coming to?

Pro-Life Humanists are a united group of atheists, agnostics, non-religious, anti-theist, and even a small but tolerable smattering of religious folk who opt to keep religion out of social justice issues like abortion (we like them just fine – even if some of us like to think of them as atheists in denial 😉  )

Lines are blurring and it appears many ideologies are slowly coming together on what unites us, to work as allies rather than opponents.   We  look forward to an increase in productive dialog among those who have too long spoken past one another.  As Pro-Life Humanists launches our blog and website, please allow me to introduce some of our friends and allies whom you will be meeting in greater depth in the upcoming weeks and months:

Feminists for Life:  A secular, pro-woman, pro-child site, this group seeks to elevate and advance woman so that they are not put into a position in which they feel forced to choose abortion because no better options exist.   Their blueprint for pregnancy and maternal options on a university campus is a truly inspiring resource begs to be implemented on every university campus, whether one supports the choice of abortion or not.    Among their most powerful spokespersons are women who conceived in rape and women who were conceived through rape.

Consistent Life: I love these people!   They oppose all forms of sanctioned violence toward human beings and work to build bridges  with those fighting the fights against  war, abortion, poverty, racism, capital punishment and euthanasia.  While many of their active members and leaders identify as Catholic, their solely secular approach to social issues and their solid opposition to all forms of human violence cause us to give them a thumbs up.

Life Matters Journal: This quarterly publication showcases the best writers and philosophers of the consistent life ethic.   We at PLH recommend you subscribe and stretch your pro-life horizons.  And we’re not being paid to say so 🙂

Secular Pro-Life:  SPL shares the heart and vision of Pro-Life Humanists and since 2009, has been a welcoming home to pro-life atheists and religious pro-lifers with a secular approach to activism.   Although we have slightly different vision and we do part ways on the matter of whether or not to have a rape exception (PLH opposes prenatal violence regardless of how one was conceived), our members and leaders work closely with one another and even sit in at each other’s conference tables.  Expect to see guest blogs from these awesome folk in the future.

Pro-Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians (PLAGAL):  The GLBT case against abortion is fascinating and we can’t wait to have these awesome folk guest blog as well.  “None of us is truly free until all of us are free, with all our rights intact and guaranteed, including the basic right to live without threat or harassment.  And that’s why we’re Pro-Life. Just like homophobia, abortion tries to get rid of real human beings who are considered threatening or undesirable.  Just like homophobia, abortion denies one’s place as a member of human society, and even one’s right to be alive in it.

There are of course many other atheist and secular websites and communities out there who take a stand against abortion, including a myriad of Facebook communities that have cropped up in recent years, but I’ll leave you with these five for now.  Welcome to our unconventional family!  We’re forever changing the face of atheism and the face of the pro-life movement; hopefully for the betterment of both.

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