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Giving Downs a Hand Up – Down Syndrome Kids Can Achieve Great Things!

Giving Downs a Hand Up – Down Syndrome Kids Can Achieve Great Things!

Posted by on Jul 31, 2014 in Book & Media Reviews, Potpourri |

*** NOTE: Please get your $5 ebook copy of
Real Families, Real Stories: Celebrating Life With Down Syndrome
By Stephanie Sumulong
TONIGHT, as every copy sold before the end of July 2014 will be matched by a generous donor, for distribution to families who have just received a Down Syndrome diagnosis.***

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Lauren Potter, actress in TV show 'Glee'

Lauren Potter, actress in TV show ‘Glee’

Young adult Jessie Huggett is a member of Propeller Dance, a troupe of contemporary dancers in Ottawa Canada that has been voted “Best Dance Show” of 2009 and 2005 by the Ottawa Xpress Newspaper. She’s also a senior member of the Dandelion Dance Company, has been a “20 Under 20” National Youth Award Finalist, and was the 2005 recipient of the Jane Cameron Award (an award named after an Alberta Canada artist, born with Down Syndrome in 1949, whose colourful tapestries, remarkable paintings and poetry were commissioned by Prime Ministers and national magazines.)

On prime-time television, California-born actress Lauren Potter has been wooing audiences in her roles as Becky Jackson on the hit television series Glee.  She’s one of a number of actresses to hit big screen and television, including Jamie BrewerAndrea Friedman, Paula Sage, and actors Chris BurkeStephane GinnszTommy JessopPablo Pineda, among others.

American sculptor Judith Scott, born in 1943, is another individual you may have encountered if you’re a patron of the visual arts.  She’s an internationally renowned American fiber artist who worked at the Creative Art Center in Oakland, California.

What do all these individuals have in common?  If you haven’t already guessed from the topic of this post, every individual named above has Down Sydrome (in fact, Judith Scott was born a deaf mute as well!).  Down Syndrome is a condition caused by an extra chromosome in one’s DNA, and is so horribly misunderstood that 90% of Down diagnoses end in abortion.  A number that shockingly, some abortion advocates don’t find high enough!

It’s not merely in the arts that many individuals with Downs have achieved great things.  In 2013 Dr. Karen Gaffney became the first living person with Down syndrome to receive a Doctor of Humane Letters degree from the University of Portland, for her long-standing humanitarian work in raising awareness about the capabilities of people who have Down syndrome.  She is an accomplished sports figure, public speaker, and advocate.

Also in 2013, Megan McCormack became the first person with Down Syndrome to graduate with honors from a technical college in United States. She earned her degree in education and was at the top of her class at Bluegrass Community Technical College in Kentucky.  She even recently got her driver’s license!

Again in 2013 Angela Bachiller became the first person with Down Syndrome to be elected as a councilwoman. She works at the Ayuntamiento (municipality) of Valladolid, Spain, and is expected to continue her political career.

As we become increasingly inclusive, many individuals with Downs are surprising us and excelling at opportunities most of their contemporaries not previously been given.  Some have become young entrepreneurs.  Others, like  Eli Reimer have made history in sports.  Eli became, in 2012, the first person with Down syndrome to reach the Base Camp of Mount Everest.  In 2013 Owen Groesser, a junior in high school with Down Syndrome managed to catch the coveted attention of the ESPN sport center after scoring two 3-point baskets with his special move.

Of course, not all individuals with Down Syndrome go on to become famous artists or do great things in society – but then again, the same is true of those of us in the population of the “normal”.   A woman I met in at the last Propeller Dance performance in Ottawa wrote a book called “Teach me, I can learn” (which I also recommend readers purchase), about her daughter Lorena who has Down Syndrome and faced discrimination in the Canadian school system.   Her book clearly showcases that life with a special needs child can be hard, but with the right support systems and love,any child can achieve a happy and productive life!    With adequate support most can go on to hold jobs, become volunteers in the community, and some, like the couple showcased in the documentary Monica and David go on to find love.    Down Syndrome is not a death sentence, nor a guarantee of a terrible life!  In fact, the stories in Real Families, Real Stories: Celebrating Life With Down Syndrome 

We stand at a crucial point in history, as the numbers of those who fight for euthanasia of the disabled are increasing alongside the the rise of disabled-rights advocates.  Advocacy groups like The International Down Syndrome Coalition often include members of the Down Syndrome community themselves, and are seeing society become increasingly inclusive of those with special needs. But with the vast majority of children diagnosed with Down Syndrome still being terminated as a life not worth living, it’s clear that human rights advocates like you and I have a long way to go!

Buy your copy of Real Families, Real Stories: Celebrating Life With Down Syndrome today for only $5 and help get this book into the hands of families who might otherwise abort their child with DS.   Parents need to know there are resources and help for them and for their children, and that if they really can’t handle the task, that there is a waiting list of couples who will adopt a child with special needs, including Down Syndrome (over 200 families currently on the DS waiting list).   Let’s help fight “chromosomalism”!  These human beings deserve human rights too!  

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Women’s Rights ARE Under Attack! (The Stoning of Soraya M.)

Women’s Rights ARE Under Attack!  (The Stoning of Soraya M.)

Posted by on Feb 25, 2014 in Book & Media Reviews | 4 comments

Graphic scene from movie depicts Soraya covered in blood while being stoned

Scene from The Stoning of Soraya M.

Women’s rights are under attack!  What do we do?  Stand up, fight back!”   That’s the rally cry of North American feminists.  And they’re right – women’s rights ARE under attack!   But not in North America.  Not even close to what women are facing around the world in far more oppressive countries!

I just watched The Stoning of Soraya M. and I am angry!  Among other things, I am quite sick of “Women’s Rights” being co-opted by the abortion lobby!  You want to see what real oppression looks like?  Watch the cinematic reproduction of the true story of a young mother named Soraya!  Stories like hers are taking place throughout the world, largely where Islam and Sharia law are the rule of the land.  Soraya was abused by her husband without recourse, backed into a situation where she would’ve been powerless and penniless if she’d consented to the divorce he wanted, and when her husband accused her of adultery in order to be rid of her immediately without having to return her dowry, she had absolutely no opportunity to defend herself.  In one day she was accused, convicted on the word of her husband and a lying witness, and sentenced to death by stoning.  That is oppression!

In many places around the world, women are routinely beaten by their husbands.  They are born to serve men and are considered lower than animals.  These women’s entire purpose is to be given in marriage, to fulfill a husband’s sexual desires, cook his food, clean his house, and raise his sons.  Daughters are his property to barter and trade with other men. In some countries they are viewed as a burdened and drowned or aborted for not being sons.  They are rarely educated and rarely given the chance to be anything other than a man’s unpaid servant. Because, as Soraya’s husband put it, “It’s a man’s world.”    Yes, that is oppression!

The Stoning of Soraya M.  spares us no detail, and we are made to watch in real-time and minute by minute detail as Soraya is taken on a death march, tied and buried waist deep, and as stone after stone after stone hits their sickening mark with graphic results and heart-wrenching thuds.  The entire movie can be rented on Amazaon for $3.99 (see link below) but I dare you to watch the ten minute stoning sequence here. Knowing that this is still happening on a regular basis all around the world, I want you to watch and see what it really means for women’s rights to be under attack:

I want to fight for the rights of women like Soraya.  I want to see them have access to education, to be employed and paid fairly and to be able to provide education for all their children. I want to see their culture respect women’s voices in society and not regard them as subservient sex slaves and housekeepers.  I want to see them have access to real legal support, to fair divorce settlements, to women’s shelters should they need to escape a bad marriage. I want to see women like Soraya be given basic dignity and human rights, with the chance to live and to walk down their streets with heads held high – in a man and woman‘s world! I believe in women’s rights, and I’ll do whatever I can to fight for women like Soraya who have no voice. Females, (both born and unborn) who are being killed and discriminated against just because they are female.

And no – you do NOT get to equate a woman’s right to live without being beaten, silenced, or stoned with your desire to dismember your preborn children to be rid of them sooner.  Shame on you if you make a mockery of the real oppression faced by women all over the world, and if you dare pretend that your rights are under attack by the mere suggestion that you may have to walk around pregnant for nine months before passing your unwanted child on to someone else. Don’t cry me a river about bodily integrity if you don’t have rocks flying at your head but instead are walking around making free decisions about your life and sexual choices. You have access to multiple forms of contraception and opportunities that countless women around the globe won’t ever know, and yet nearly half of women having abortions simply did not use a contraception method the month they got pregnant) It’s time to stop playing the victim and take charge of your sex life. You’re not under attack!

Yes, life could still improve for women in the western world. We could use better daycare and maternity leave options, guaranteed equal wages, flexible school and work telecommute solutions… but comparatively, a trot around the world should make us all realize we’re really not that bad off! It’s time to stop co-opting “women’s rights”.

By: Kristine Kruszelnicki
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The Pregnancy Project: Breaking Stereotypes

Posted by on Feb 13, 2014 in Book & Media Reviews | 2 comments

New blog category: introducing “Book & Media Reviews”, for the many times abortion and unplanned pregnancy appear in film, TV, movies, and books! Behold your first: The Pregnancy Project: A Memoir

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Gaby Rodriguez poses with actress who plays her

Gaby Rodriguez (right) posing with actress who plays her on film.


Despite being a low-income Latina and daughter of a teenaged single Mom, Gaby Rodriguez exceeded many people’s expectations. An honor-roll student on countless school committees, squad captain, member of the leadership team, and already recommended by several teachers to the college of her choice, Gaby was a top contender on nearly everyone’s “sure to excel” list… Until her senior year, when she announced to her school and family that she was pregnant. While some, like her leadership class teacher, said encouraging things like “Well, I don’t see why you can’t be a leader and a mom”, most reactions from peers, teachers and family were cold and cruel:

“I always knew she’d get pregnant. All the girls from her neighborhood do.”

“She’s so stupid. She just threw her life away.”

“She’ll never go to college now.”

“I wonder if she’ll even graduate.”

“Her boyfriend’s going to bail.”

“She had a real chance at a future and now she’ll never amount to anything. Her life is over.”

As Gaby walked the halls of her school that year, she and her closest confidantes kept track of comments that were said to and about her. She and her boyfriend Jorge bore a full barrage of negative expectations, and she witnessed how fast those around her began to look down and devalue her potential once her belly began to grow. She wanted desperately to show them all that she was still the same intelligent and potential-filled young lady she had been before she became pregnant – and in fact she was

… Because Gaby wasn’t pregnant.

Gaby Rodriguez, now the author of a book entitled The Pregnancy Project: A Memoir and subject of a Lifetime Network Movie by the same name, faked a pregnancy for her senior project in high school, in order to showcase and rebuke the endless stereotypes put on teen Moms. Many of those stereotypes become self-fulfilling prophecies as society fails to encourage the young ladies to do any better for themselves, and tells the young dads they’re doomed to never have a normal life again – which only furthers the statistics and stereotypes as more and more of them fall in line with the negative expectations placed on them.

Why do we not come alongside a pregnant young lady and tell her “it won’t be easy but it can be done – and we can help?” On page 111 of her book, Gaby highlights the example of the four-minute mile. Prior to 1954 doctors and scientists said it was physically impossible for a human body to run a mile in under four minutes. No one had ever done it and it was believed one would die in the attempt. But just as soon as one man did it, he was quickly followed by another runner after another, and by 1957 sixteen runners had beaten the four minute mile. It seemed that once they knew it could be done, it entered their realm of possibility. The human mind is susceptible to that kind of conditioning – so why is society so quick to restrict the vision of possibility for young teens by telling them they are bound to have miserable lives if they have a baby?

I’ll let Gaby share her thoughts on the matter in this brief excerpt: (The Pregnancy Project, page 124-127)

The thing is, I understand where the negativity comes from. People say these things because they’ve seen other other young, unmarried parents mess up their lives. It would be unrealistic to expect everyone to say “Congratulations!” and cheer about it — and that would probably be harmful to others, because other teens might see the positive attention and want some of it for themselves… leading to more teen pregnancies.

No matter what, I knew that the focus had to stay on avoiding teen pregnancies in the first place. But once the act is done, why throw teen parents under the bus? Whether a committed couple’s birth control failed or someone got drunk at a party and had a one-night stand, the result is the same: There’s going to be a baby. What good does it do anyone to sit around insulting the parents? What positive result can possibly come of it?

If anything, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Teen moms don’t usually stop at one child. You’d think that they’d have hard lives and never want to get into that predicament again, but it often doesn’t happen that way. One in four teen moms gets pregnant again within two years. They wind up having second and third kids without being in solid marriages, but why? Maybe it’s because they’ve been told they’re screwups and that their own lives are over now anyway, so they figure this is all they can do in life. Maybe they become desperate for affection because they’ve been so ostracized. I can’t be sure what goes on in everyone’s minds, but can make guesses based on how I felt during the experiment.

… A message board post from a teen mom echoed what I was feeling. “When you get pregnant as a teenager, a lot of people give up on you and treat you like garbage, no matter how smart or nice or hard-working you were before,” she wrote. “Nobody wants to ‘encourage teen pregnancy’, so they feel it’s their duty to make you suffer. It is painful and scarring and it’s why a lot of teen moms drop out.”

I believe that once the news is announced, the focus needs to be on what now? For the benefit of society, it’s in everyone’s interest to make sure this baby doesn’t grow up to become a criminal, or a lifelong welfare recipient. Its entirely possible for the children of teen moms to do great things — you don’t need to look any further than President Barack Obama for proof of that. His mom was eighteen when she had him. Or Eric Clapton, Oprah Winfrey, even Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez — all were reared by teen moms, and no matter what you think of them, they’re all hugely successful in their fields.

So why not focus on that? Why not see President Obama’s mom as the four-minute mile of teen pregnancy? If she was able to finish her education, attain a successful life, and have one of her children grow up to become president of the United States, then we know it’s possible. With enough support and encouragement, maybe the teen dads would stick around, and maybe the teen moms would finish their education, get better jobs, and stop repeating the cycle.

We won’t win this battle by finger-pointing and gossiping. We win it by educating, talking, and lifting each other up. We win it by being decent to one another.

I think Gaby Rodriguez is quite right. She identifies in her book as being “very much pro-life” (page 89) and while she doesn’t say so explicitly, it’s not hard to see why many teens and young single women succumb to abortion precisely because they are so terrified by the refrain of “it’ll ruin your life!”. Women deserve better than that. If we truly care for their well-being and that of their children, our focus needs to be on offering women real support and real choices. Having a child will change a woman’s life (and that of her partner) especially if she chooses to raise the baby herself, but it doesn’t have to end or destroy it. It’s up to all of us to give her the encouragement and support she needs to not end her child’s life. She shouldn’t have to do it alone.

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